Worst Week Ever...and its only Wednesday!!

Sammyjo

I am having the worst week ever; as some will remember from my thread yesterday I had my wallet nicked on Monday, and last night, my boyfriend dumps me, just a week after id moved in with him. Am feeling v sorry for myself. Its only Wednesday!!

Can anyone cheer me up, or make me feel better with their tales of similar woeness?

Red Alert

meh, 'tis being a crap week for me too. too much to do and so little motivation. it will get better me thinks

*hugs*

skywalker

Some things in life are bad
They can really make you mad
Other things just make you swear and curse.
When you're chewing on life's gristle
Don't grumble, give a whistle
And this'll help things turn out for the best...


Altogether now. . . . .

Prior Of Taize

Sammyjo wrote:

Can anyone cheer me up, or make me feel better with their tales of similar woeness?

Im having a fantastic week so far. In fact i havent got anything to complain about.

I hate life so far.........

joejoem

Sammyjo wrote:

I am having the worst week ever; as some will remember from my thread yesterday I had my wallet nicked on Monday, and last night, my boyfriend dumps me, just a week after id moved in with him. Am feeling v sorry for myself. Its only Wednesday!!

Can anyone cheer me up, or make me feel better with their tales of similar woeness?

Ahhhhhhh thats terrible. It will get better though, apart from the weather. N ext week..... Best week ever....

Prior Of Taize

joejoem wrote:

Ahhhhhhh thats terrible. It will get better though, apart from the weather. N ext week..... Best week ever....

stop trying to fool her. she knows her life is crap at the moment. it probably wont ever change. its sad but its an inevitability. im sorry but your just going to have to deal with it.

Ronan|Raven

I spend most my working day trying to escape! If that makes you feel any better. Dont believe the lies I.T. is a bag of piss and bitchyness!

Prior Of Taize

I work in I.T. also. i believe you forgot to mention working with impossibly stupid people in addition to bitchyness

joejoem

Prior Of Taize wrote:

stop trying to fool her. she knows her life is crap at the moment. it probably wont ever change. its sad but its an inevitability. im sorry but your just going to have to deal with it.

No, no, no. I dont think like that, when ****e happens, it all happens at once, you just got to let it go like water off a ducks back. Eventually there is a turning point when you find a fiver on your way home from work or it starts to rain as you park your car and you realise that yes you do have an umbrella in the car, then everything starts to pick up gradually.

The way I look at it is that if you have an almighty shíte week your just saving up karma for weeks to come. I'm on good Karma at the moment myself. I could do with some more time off though.

Fallschirmjager

Sammyjo wrote:

I am having the worst week ever; as some will remember from my thread yesterday I had my wallet nicked on Monday, and last night, my boyfriend dumps me, just a week after id moved in with him. Am feeling v sorry for myself. Its only Wednesday!!

Can anyone cheer me up, or make me feel better with their tales of similar woeness?

my recommendation, ring your frinds, all of them, dont talk about 'yer man'...meet up, get togged out in yer best gear,have a laugh..

oh, dont drink...u will just ring , get depressed etc...look up ryanair , goto London for a day...anything other then sit around..(of course depends on the wallet issue being solved)

worked for me...best of luck...

another thing is join a club,gym anything that involves people and meet as ment new people as you can...

avoid soppy love stories, songs, books and any of that $hit that you relate to yesterday...

pdunno

Jees, that has been a crappy week so far. On the bright side though, it can't really get much worse. It's all on the up from here.

He dumped you a week after moving in - that's ****ing lousy.

I've a pretty ****e few months tbh, won't bore anyone with the details but I think just like joejoem my karma seems to coming good at the moment. So try and remember that it's only temporary

audge

Sammyjo wrote:

I am having the worst week ever; as some will remember from my thread yesterday I had my wallet nicked on Monday, and last night, my boyfriend dumps me, just a week after id moved in with him. Am feeling v sorry for myself. Its only Wednesday!!

Can anyone cheer me up, or make me feel better with their tales of similar woeness?[/QUOTE

Well things cant get much worse.........
Time to get proactive.... look at it this way, your half way through the week, its almost the weekend again, so call everyone in your phone book and plan the biggest night out you have had in ages, go shopping (late night shopping tomorrow) max out that credit card, pamper yourself, hair, nails, tan, whatever your into, and hit the town on friday night! You ego and spirits will be lifted in no time and you can sleep late on saturday, just stay in bed texting your girly pals for all the gossip you where too drunk to remember!
Promise you will feel much better!

Sammyjo

i cant max the credit card.....it was in the wallet with the rest of my cards!!

thanks everyone though. just gonna get bladdered drunk, leaving my mobile at home all this weekend. on the bright side...its my birthday next week!! so two mad weekends in a row should help!!

Siogfinsceal

You poor chicken - hope you feel better soon!! Your boyf was an @rse. Use his mobile number and place a car for sale add in a national paper ;-) hehheh. oh and if you ring his prefix (085/086 etc) then '5' then his mobi number it brings you to his voicemail. Hit '#' then it will ask you for password if he hasnt changed it from '0000' you will be abel to record a new one for him ;-0
oh and the others are right at least the weekend is in sight and the week is half over. Get your girlie mates out for a night and get some retail therapy!!!

Sammyjo

haha class. must try the car for sale one!

joejoem

Sammyjo wrote:

haha class. must try the car for sale one!

My personal favorite is "100 pairs of sky blue Y-Fronts, barely used."

Siogfinsceal

my fave is to sell a car for a couple of hundred quid someone did it to my bro and he got about 50 calls. or if you go on the net and google theres lots of websites where you can put in a fone number and request a call back.

LegacyUser

i had a poor sleep last night, so i'm prety tired in work.

stevenmu

Sammyjo wrote:

haha class. must try the car for sale one!

Meh, put his body up for sale instead, much funnier, especially if you get access to his voice mail and change the message to something more 'appropriate'. For bonus points try and get one of his parents to give him a call, and be put through to said message.

joejoem

Siogfinsceal wrote:

my fave is to sell a car for a couple of hundred quid someone did it to my bro and he got about 50 calls. or if you go on the net and google theres lots of websites where you can put in a fone number and request a call back.

Yeah Ive done it to a few people. You have to advertise there car and ridiculously cheap for maximum annoyance. Another good one is a flat for let, will take rent allowance.....

Pighead

Ah Sammyjo ya poor wee thing.Pigheads heart is weeping here.But as my senile granny used to say "every cloud in the hand is worth two in the bush"
Look at it like this buddy,you're wallet was getting a bit shabby anyway,those bank and credit cards where the old crappy ones without the cool holograms.Probably a bit bent as well from leaving them in your back pocket.Next Monday morning you've got brand new cards and a spanking new wallet.

As for your nasty ex,isn't it better you found out now what a spanner he is rather than a few months down the line where there could have been babas involved.And better again you can watch whatever you want on the telly.No champions league snorefests for you missy.
Buy a bottle of wine, bring Pighead and the girlies around and lets celebrate your newly found independence.

audge

Pighead wrote:

Ah Sammyjo ya poor wee thing.Pigheads heart is weeping here.But as my senile granny used to say "every cloud in the hand is worth two in the bush"
Look at it like this buddy,you're wallet was getting a bit shabby anyway,those bank and credit cards where the old crappy ones without the cool holograms.Probably a bit bent as well from leaving them in your back pocket.Next Monday morning you've got brand new cards and a spanking new wallet.

As for your nasty ex,isn't it better you found out now what a spanner he is rather than a few months down the line where there could have been babas involved.And better again you can watch whatever you want on the telly.No champions league snorefests for you missy.
Buy a bottle of wine, bring Pighead and the girlies around and lets celebrate your newly found independence.

Good advice there... even though some of the prank suggestions are funny, I wouldnt bother... don't waste another minute thinking about this guy. every time he enters your thoughts, stop yourself, think of something else straight away, he has wasted enough of your time and thoughts already!

Sammyjo

you completely hit the nail on the head pighead!

planning going out with the girlies on fri, getting totally dolled up, sozzled, looking now for a new apartment and this evening im going to get a bottle of vodka and drink it straight!

Sammyjo

guys...now he wants me back. talk about a head wrecking week!!

old_lady

Sammyjo wrote:

guys...now he wants me back. talk about a head wrecking week!!

NO!!!! DON'T DO IT! YOU WILL ONLY MAKE A BAD WEEK EVEN WORSE!

Siogfinsceal

whaaa-th eflippin cheeek of him!! god he changes his mind pretty quick huh?? why did he dump you? did you have a big row or anything? its up to you wether you take him back or not but dont make a rash decision think about what you really want.

Sammyjo

well guys the story is that we broke up about 3 months ago, for a few weeks, and i was with someone else, and he wasnt. and he finds that very hard to deal with. i totally know i shouldnt have done it and i can empathise with how he feels, but now, i cant turn back the clock and change it

(god this is turning into a PI!)

Siogfinsceal

but whqt caused him to dump you the other night? he obv liked you enough to ask you to move in with him? maybe get back together abut live apart for a while until your sure whats what it might have been too soon to move intogether if its only 3 months since the other incident

Pighead

Sammyjo wrote:

guys...now he wants me back. talk about a head wrecking week!!

Oh smarmy pants wants you back does he.Funny how he wants you back the day after Liverpool and Chelsea have played their Champions League Matches!Hes a Liverpool or Chelsea fan isn't he Sammy.I hate that spanner even more now.Tell him to buzz off back to Anfield or Stamford Bridge

Sammyjo

he's actually a man u fan, but he was watching the liverpool match and keeping an eye on the chelsea one in the hope that both would lose!

Kiera

If you do get back with him you lose all rights to post/bitch about him in here again. People have given advise on what you should do and if you go against that and come back a month later with the same problem no one will care. He was mean and we're all on your side!!

Sammyjo

thanks kiera. i have no intentions of doing that! hes gone, doesnt deserve me. going for a fatty pub lunch with the girls so that will def make me feel better, then gonna keep up the apartment hunting, and thanks to everyone for helping me through this mini crisis!!

Pighead

Sammyjo wrote:

he's actually a man u fan, but he was watching the liverpool match and keeping an eye on the chelsea one in the hope that both would lose!

Man Utd fan eh,Pighead thought as much,scummy Red Devil worshipper.Pighead begs you to ask him one question.Ask him to name the reliable scottish full back who made his unite debut in 1974.If he gets it wrong make sure to ditch that zero and get yourself a hero.If he gets it right we're talking second chance saloon.

Clue to question:Rhymes with Martha gal-fistin

Kiera

audge wrote:

Alright then, no second chances for anyone on here.... what???? Me arse, if you get back with him and it goes pear shaped you'll learn a lesson the hard way, and thats your choice. If you get back with him and it works out, well won't you be glad you didn't listen to these guys.

2 sides to ur story, 1]you scored someone when you where on a break.... so what, you where on a break!

She's already got back with him in the past and he's still acting the maggot!!

audge

Kiera wrote:

If you do get back with him you lose all rights to post/bitch about him in here again. People have given advise on what you should do and if you go against that and come back a month later with the same problem no one will care. He was mean and we're all on your side!!

Alright then, no second chances for anyone on here.... what???? Me arse, if you get back with him and it goes pear shaped you'll learn a lesson the hard way, and thats your choice. If you get back with him and it works out, well won't you be glad you didn't listen to these guys.

2 sides to ur story,
1]you scored someone when you where on a break.... so what, you where on a break!

2] He didn't score anyone and is mad at you for being so "heartless" to mooch someone while he was pining away.

We dont know why you scored someone, maybe you where drunk, upset and rebounding, maybe someone told you the best way to get over one man is to get under another... who knows
We dont know why he didnt score anyone else, maybe he was pining, maybe the opportunity didn't present itself.

You cant go back and change it, if this is gonna work he needs to let it go.

Don't think either of you did anything totally unforgivable, so now it needs to be decided.... forgive forget and move on??
Or realise he is not gonna be able to get this out of his head and the relationship wont be the same.

Whatever happens, don't worry about discussing it here, thats what boards is for!!!!

Sammyjo

thanks audge. this has really helped get me through the morning. have done absolutely no work at all today so far, have spent my time looking at boards and daft! v productive....

anyway yeah i was really upset cos i saw him out one of the nights we were split up and he was chatting up girls left right and centre, (who he actually just knows i found out later)....but all the lads were there with him and totally playing up cos they knew i was there. it was just a front, but i really thought he was fine and moving on and i was like well i have to do something to get over him to make me feel better and forget about him. totally totally totally stupid and childish and with drink involved etc etc, but as you said i cant change the past and i cant keep saying im sorry for it

audge

Sammyjo wrote:

i cant change the past and i cant keep saying im sorry for it

EXACTLY! I am sure you explained the situation to him already, So you gotta ask him, whats it gonna be? Moving on? or Moving out?

Kernel

Pighead wrote:

Man Utd fan eh,Pighead thought as much,scummy Red Devil worshipper.

Pighead, you are a United supporter too..... remember, RE-AL-ITY??

Kiera

Exactly, you can’t keep saying sorry. It’s not fair on you. Will you feel safe getting back with him or will you now always have this fear that he’s going to finish it and you’ll have to move out again? Is it worth all this hassle? This all happened to me and i'm finally rid of him and i feel so much better in myself. Being single is a god-send compared to being with my ex. G'luck.

Sammyjo

thanks kiera, im actually looking forward to getting my own place...have never lived by myself (ie without boyfriend or parents) before. it will be liberating!!

joejoem

Sammyjo wrote:

thanks kiera, im actually looking forward to getting my own place...have never lived by myself (ie without boyfriend or parents) before. it will be liberating!!

Ahhhh the joys of naked tuesdays.........

Sammyjo

the way nature intended us to be...

Kiera

Sammyjo wrote:

the way nature intended us to be...

I was dead scared of living on my own so moved into a shared house with another girl and 3 weeks later "the panty weirdo" moved in. Its great fun tho. You'll have so much fun x x x

Sammyjo

panty weirdo? do tell.....

Kiera

Sammyjo wrote:

panty weirdo? do tell.....

Ah pants, my search isnt working. Lets just say it was very disturbing

joejoem

Sammyjo wrote:

panty weirdo? do tell.....

Moving into an apartment can be a very big step at any stage in your life, especially now, maybe you should think about sharing a place instead. You can get somewhere much cheaper sharing with a few others, you might even make good friends with them. An empty place can be pretty lonely.

Siogfinsceal

ok now im really confused by all the football stuff!!