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  • 30-10-2005 2:27pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Right here is the story gf broke up off few months back broke my heart whatever decided to forget about women for awhile, I have been in long relationship since 15 now 21.... The Thing is i have not idea what to say to a girl to chat them up, i maybe a but shy but if i knew what to say then i think my confidence will be alot better,I havent met anyone since the break up as i just wanted to sort out my head and stuff....Any Advice...?


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  • #2
    WhiteWashMan
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,099 ✭✭✭✭WhiteWashMan


    say whatever you want.
    most imp[ortant thing is to be yourself, not try to be someone that you think will impress her.

    after all she will be pretty annoyed when she finds out your not that person.

    if youa re that worried about conversation, then just ask her questions about herself.
    what university, what courses, what does she do for a living, where did she go to school, whats her favourite colour, is she going on holiday, does she drive, doesnt she hate BMW drivers on the road.

    come on its not that hard...


  • #3
    AARRRGH
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12,382 ✭✭✭✭AARRRGH


    As above. Girls love talking about themselves.

    Just try to appear confident.


  • #4
    Mr.Nice Guy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 45,640 ✭✭✭✭Mr.Nice Guy


    As WWM and dublindude said, show interest in the girl by asking alot of questions. It's good to be playful and to tease them as well.

    Don't approach with the mindset that you are chatting the person up. Just approach with the mindset that you're out to have fun.


  • #5
    Blondie86Star
    Closed Accounts Posts: 408 ✭✭Blondie86Star


    Girls do love talking about themselves!
    Don't be sleazy, just be yourself, buy her a drink, go outside to the smoking area, you ALWAYS ger talkin 2 someone!
    Good Luck:o


  • #6
    Squirrel
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,376 ✭✭✭Squirrel


    I'd say just be yourself, but maybe not the best advice, me being so hot with the ladies at the moment:rolleyes:

    All I can say is be yourself, if a girl doesn't like you for who you are what's the point?


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  • #7
    PrettyKitty
    Closed Accounts Posts: 15 ✭PrettyKitty


    'Chatting someone up' can seem a daunting experience but everyone here is right. Being yourself is so important...

    If you are at the bar buying a drink and you're next to a girl, just smile and say hi - you can gague receptiveness straight away. If she smiles then chat a little more. Doesn't have to be heavy, just don't be cheesy.

    Eye contact is the most important thing and listen. :D

    Don't stare at her boobs - as tempting as this may seem!! No matter what! :p

    A smile can do wonders - when my boyfriend approached me and started chatting it was because we had witnessed some idiot making a fool of himself. He said he saw me laughing and saw that as the perfect way to make an introduction. We had shared something.

    Hope this helps. Good luck and above all - enjoy yourself. If you go out and have a good time then you'll be fighting off the ladies. :cool:


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