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Another advice required thread!

  • 27-09-2005 5:29pm
    #1
    Beer is Life
    Closed Accounts Posts: 371 ✭✭


    Ok, where to start...


    ...A few months ago i had a house party and my best mate came over with this girl he met a few days before. Anyway, he wasnt too interested in her, and he hasnt spoken to her in about a month now. I thought she was great, and we got on fairly well. I met her a few times in the pub aswell and everything was cool.
    So me and my mate went out about a week ago and got fairly drunk, so i asked him for her number. He said he doesnt give a **** about her anyway. Im just wondering should i get in touch and if so, what will i say? Doesnt have to lead anywhere, meeting her again as a friend would be cool too.


Comments

  • #2
    bellend
    Closed Accounts Posts: 25 ✭bellend


    whatever dude. do it.. if he didnt like her thats cool. the rare time that happans.

    ive scored birds that scored my mates before and it was all good. ya never know u might get a girlfriend out of it.


  • #3
    melekalikimaka
    Moderators, Education Moderators, Music Moderators Posts: 10,686 Mod ✭✭✭✭melekalikimaka


    does it not bother you your mate was with her...damaged goods an all


  • #4
    0utshined
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,746 ✭✭✭0utshined


    melekalikimaka wrote:
    does it not bother you your mate was with her...damaged goods an all


    Why should it? Everyone has a past.

    And "damaged goods"? Come on now.


  • #5
    Zebra3
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 14,005 ✭✭✭✭Zebra3


    melekalikimaka wrote:
    does it not bother you your mate was with her...damaged goods an all

    Is this really 2005? :rolleyes:


  • #6
    pclancy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,941 ✭✭✭pclancy


    Just give her a shout and go for beer/food/cinema/something. See what happens. Make sure she knows how ur mate feels and ull figure out what the story is.


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  • #7
    AARRRGH
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12,382 ✭✭✭✭AARRRGH


    Go for it. Worst case scenario it doesn't work. But hey, if you you don't try it's failed already, right?


  • #8
    Beruthiel
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,362 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    melekalikimaka wrote:
    does it not bother you your mate was with her...damaged goods an all

    damaged?!
    what age are you?


  • #9
    seamus
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 68,317 ✭✭✭✭seamus


    Yeah, once a girl has kissed a guy, that's it; She's forever tainted :rolleyes:


  • #10
    yossarin
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 932 ✭✭✭yossarin


    I know a few girls who still think this with regards to friends exes.
    luckely boys are not so petty eh? :)


  • #11
    dudara
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,518 ✭✭✭✭dudara


    If your friend isn't interested in taking it further with her, then you've got your chance. It was very sound of you to run things by your mate first.


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