cheating hubby

LegacyUser

LAST week, I discovered my best friend and my husband making love.

I thought I'd surprise her with a bottle of bubbly for her birthday and sneaked into her garden to discover them together in the conservatory. They didn't see me until she started to give him oral sex.

I was frozen to the spot, but at least I have the satisfaction of knowing it must have been one of the worst moments of my husband's life when our eyes met. I flung the champagne at the pair of them and the sound of breaking glass was good too.

My husband says it was a mistake and the affair wouldn't have lasted. But I've since discovered he bought a mobile phone a year ago just to make calls to her.

Our family and hers have been so close, we go on holiday together, spend Christmas at each other's houses. All the time she was trying to get my man. There are so many reasons to stay together - we have a large mortgage and his elderly father lives with us - but I don't know if I can. He says he's sorry but refuses to see a counsellor and says talking will only make matters worse.

tinkerbell

He was having an affair! How could you even think about staying with him purely for the large mortgage thing?

If you break up, ye'll just have to sell the house, and repay back the mortgage that way (but there will be a fee for early repayment).

He won't go see a marriage counsellor, he's refusing to take responsibility for his actions, so I think you'd be so much better off leaving him tbh. And also, don't ever talk to your bitch of a "friend" again.

Gazza22

Sorry to hear, it's terrible when you hear of this situations in marriage...

Well if you are not happy with him anymore, a mortgage and the fact his father lives with you's is very trivial towards living an unhappy life. Do whats in your heart

Talking won't make matters worst, whats he just expect you to forget about what has happened? You said that he has a phone that he brought a year ago to stay in contact with your "friend"...then this is obviously not just a little affair, a whole year he has been going behind your back.

Definitely take time away from him a.s.a.p and allow your mind to clarify the situation and see what you want to do

LegacyUser

troll

http://www.mirror.co.uk/sexandhealth/miriam/tm_objectid=14343384%26method=full%26siteid=94762-name_page.html

0utshined

tinkerbell wrote:

If you break up, ye'll just have to sell the house, and repay back the mortgage that way (but there will be a fee for early repayment).

IANAL but I don't think this is correct if there are kids involved. There is a family homes act which could prevent the sale of the house so the kids have somewhere to live with their primary carer. I don't know all the details of it and it may not be relevant but it would behoove the OP to check it out.

Victor

troll basher wrote:

troll

http://www.mirror.co.uk/sexandhealth/miriam/tm_objectid=14343384%26method=full%26siteid=94762-name_page.html

Thank you I googled it, but couldn't find it. OP can you be a bit more original please?

Pataman

troll basher wrote:

troll

http://www.mirror.co.uk/sexandhealth/miriam/tm_objectid=14343384%26method=full%26siteid=94762-name_page.html

What sort of assholes get a thrill from coming here trying to fool us.
GROW UP

galwaydude

well done troll basher for spotting this, what some ppl will do for kicks

Gazza22

Jesus thats really annoying!!! F*cking grow up all you muppets and trolls out there.... :mad:

Esel

It wasn't even real champagne! :rolleyes:

Stench Blossoms

sad sad person..

PullMyFinger!

Gobsh*te

Can mods do a site wide IP ban in cases of super muppetry like this?

Beruthiel

muppet

Talliesin

Eh, polmki, what was the point of trolling with a letter from elsewhere?

You don't even get the "ha ha, you thought it was real" ego-boo of a hoax given that the actual story is possibly true (not that saddos with attention-seeking issues don't troll newspaper problem pages too, so maybe it's a double hoax, who knows).

Really all you've managed to show here is that some people aren't familiar enough with the Daily Mirror problem pages to spot this. I don't really consider lack of familiarity with the Daily Mirror to be indicative of a naïve or uneducated stance, do you?

A poor troll, even by your standards.