What should I do? Ignore or reply?

quad_red

Hey all.
I wonder what you guys think I should do.

I broke up with this girl a year and a half ago. We'd been going out a good few years. She went abroad and wasn't particularly nice about things in numerous ways. Anyway, she returned last May. Have run into her once. Nothing to say to her really. But we've talked once or twice since. I've tried to nice about things. Recently a guy we worked for in America (we went on J1 to San Fran) contacted me. He asked about her. Now, I could've just said we broke up and left it at that. I didn't. Although she'd probably have said nothing I figured that this guy is a good contact to have. So I passed his details onto her and gave him her mail address. And she replied with the mail quoted below (note the signature. A Kaiser Chief quote.) Now, this is obviously a f*ck you.

Should I ignore it or reply? The imp of the perverse says tell her to do one. But, overall, I don't really care. I've got a beautiful new girlfriend, a great life etc.

I'll let the jury decide..

"Thanks for that just got an email from him.
--
every day i love you less and less
i can't believe once you and me did sex
it makes me sick to think of you undressed
cause everyday i love you less and less
-Kaiser Chiefs
"

jellie

ignore it, its just childish. you've got a good life without her, u dont need that kinda s**t

qz

quad_red wrote:

Hey all.
I wonder what you guys think I should do.

I broke up with this girl a year and a half ago. We'd been going out a good few years. She went abroad and wasn't particularly nice about things in numerous ways. Anyway, she returned last May. Have run into her once. Nothing to say to her really. But we've talked once or twice since. I've tried to nice about things. Recently a guy we worked for in America (we went on J1 to San Fran) contacted me. He asked about her. Now, I could've just said we broke up and left it at that. I didn't. Although she'd probably have said nothing I figured that this guy is a good contact to have. So I passed his details onto her and gave him her mail address. And she replied with the mail quoted below (note the signature. A Kaiser Chief quote.) Now, this is obviously a f*ck you.

Should I ignore it or reply? The imp of the perverse says tell her to do one. But, overall, I don't really care. I've got a beautiful new girlfriend, a great life etc.

I'll let the jury decide..

"Thanks for that just got an email from him.
--
every day i love you less and less
i can't believe once you and me did sex
it makes me sick to think of you undressed
cause everyday i love you less and less
-Kaiser Chiefs
"

Leave it. Get on with your new life and girlfriend.

c - 13

Just let it slide dude.
Why should you let her bother you ?
You have a new girlfriend and your happy.
Just ignore it, she's just trying to piss you off.

Crucifix

Take the moral-highground and let it slide. Plus that could be an automatic signature added to every e-mail, rather than a stab directly aimed at you.

Beruthiel

I wouldn't lower myself tbh
ignore it

GreenHell

Eh chicks what can ya do, thats pretty low though. Personnally I'd be eating myself up looking for a come back quote.

quad_red

To be honest, nothing surprises me anymore. And I certainly don't care about what she says. I'm confident enough not to let silly insults bother me. And I'm way past caring what she specifically, thinks.

I'm just not sure where THAT came from y'know? Especially as we share some friends. Makes me wonder what she's saying.

Ignore it is then (despite there being some juicy comebacks lurking )

Beruthiel

quad_red wrote:

I'm just not sure where THAT came from y'know?

jealously or not 100% over you, anyone one who is happy in their own lives would not waste their time with such pettiness, nor would they be thinking like that any longer if they had truly moved on...

*marie*

If that sig was meant for you, it looks to me like she is clinging on even more than you are...I mean, out of nowhere?!
You're better off without her just ignore it.

0utshined

I think that quote was more for her benefit than yours, trying to convince herself rather than to tell you. Don't respond though unless you want to get back in contact with her.

Coney Island

Ignore it.

Either she is really stupid or she still likes you...

tinkerbell

Just ignore it, she's probably just trying to get a dig into you, and hoping she'll get a reaction outta ya.