what can i do? 2

sky_2005

Edited version by Victor

I went out with a guy from Galway for about a month - not even a month. It ended because he was going through a rough patch and what not. I thought I loved him, but now I realise I didn’t, because he texted me saying he loved me and wanted to make a go at it again and then went and said he wanted a casual relationship, but he said he loved me and yesterday I got a phone call, which lead to me talking to a girl saying that he said the same to her. I don’t know what to do. I’m so mad with him. I want him to see all the pain and hurt he's causing and this other girl is really nice and I don’t want to see her getting hurt either. When I know that he doesn’t love her I spoke to her for a while on the phone and we’re going to keep in touch I hope.

Went out wit a guy from Galway for about a month not even a month. It ended because he was going through a rough patch and what not. I thought i loved him, but now i realise i didnt, because he txt me sayin he loved me and wanted to make a go at it again then went and said he wanted a casual relationship, but he said he loved me and yesterday i got a fone call, which lead to me tlkin to a girl sayin that he said the same to her. I dont know what to do im so mad with him i want him to see all the pain and hurt he's causing and this other girl is really nice and i dont wanna see her gettin hurt either. When i know that he doesnt love her i spoke to her for a while on the fone and were gonna keep in touch i hope.

Fysh

It was less than a month long and you were talking about love, pain and hurt? I can't help feeling that this is infatuation rather than anything even remotely serious. I know that doesn't make it any better, but still - it has to be said, imo.

If you think he's worth it, give him a chance. If not, don't. If he's managed to hurt you in less than a month, chances are it'll happen again (especially if he's done it to someone else as well) - but that's a decision only you can make.

Personally, I'd suggest easing off talking about love and just figuring out if you even get on well with someone first...

sky_2005

Ya i know a month wasnt long but it just felt like it was longer anyhow i think i should just forget him and move on.

vibrant

sky_2005 wrote:

anyhow i think i should just forget him and move on.

Sounds like you already know the answer! You don't need idiots like him in your life, making you feel stressed and unhappy. What's the point of that?! And if there's ever talk of "love" and "another girl" in the same breath again, you'll know what to do ... run away!

Victor

sky_2005 wrote:

because he txt me sayin he loved me and wanted to make a go at it again then went and said he wanted a casual relationship

Then he was abusing the word love to metaphorically "get in your pants".

LundiMardi

to reiterate my comment from your previous thread. ''OP, i suggest you wait till you're an adult until entering into relationships.''