Do i have personality disorder?

LegacyUser

Here's the scoop. Girl i work with i like, she likes me back. All good right?

Enter another guy. He works with me, he's attracted to another girl i work with who likes him back.

Sounds like a perfect situation right?

Enter weird, jealous me. Because i know this guy really likes this girl, i get very competitive and ignore the girl i like. I start competing with this guy over this girl that i really have no interest in. Just becuase i want to prove that she will pick me over him, and i will be the proved the greatest.

End of the day, no body ends up happy. (except maybe the other girl, who likes 2 guys fighting over her)

Victor

No, you're just being a prat. Go get the other woman.

Shabadu

If you have the cognitive faculties to realise it's a stupid course of action then you probably have the will-power to stop doing it.

Beruthiel

I would suggest that you get over yourself
if you need to compete, join a sports club or something

kasintahan

Score them both, at the same time, on his birthday, in his house

Sifo

its sounds like you may fancy this guy!!!

jimmycrackcorm

OP - you are a control freak. I'd bet if you looked at other aspects of your personality you would see that you always want to be in control. e.g. if you are meeting friends for something you might arrive last to have the wait for you and so on.

crazymonkey

Your to competive for your own good, go and get the original girl you liked (if you still can). And all live happy ever after,
Peace

pickarooney

I thought this was fairly common. I get a similar impulse all the time, but rarely end up acting on it (well, not beyond heavy flirting). It's all to do with the thrill of the chase being more exciting than the catch and meal, I would have thought.

Selik

pickarooney wrote:

I thought this was fairly common. I get a similar impulse all the time, but rarely end up acting on it (well, not beyond heavy flirting). It's all to do with the thrill of the chase being more exciting than the catch and meal, I would have thought.

Exactly, coz without the chase there wouldn't be a catch, without the catch there wouldn't be a meal and without a meal means someone's gonna go hungry.... right?

shoegirl

No you don't. You're just a tosser. Carry on like that and you'll be a very lonely person.

Capt'n Midnight

You are aspiring to be the dog in the manger.

Get a coin, toss it to see which girl you should go for. Don't look at it yet, which way do you want it to be ? (if you already know the answer then cold shower and remind yourself of the faults of the other one.)