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I'm just not feeling like me...

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  • 28-06-2005 4:43pm
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    LegacyUser
    Registered Users Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I have this large shadow hanging over me...
    I'm in dept...
    I'm always fighting with my parents...
    I'll I want to do is sleep...
    I'm tearing up all the time..
    I've been with this guy who treats me well but amits that he doesnt love me nor will he ever...
    I hate my job..


    everything anyone says feels like a personaly insult!

    I do not want to seek medical advice...
    i have done before


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    Gordon
    Registered Users Posts: 35,524 ✭✭✭✭Gordon


    Sounds like you need to see a counsellor.

    As for the boyfriend - ditch him.

    The job - have a think to yourself, take some days thinking about what area of job you would be more interested in. Have a skim through the newspapers that have job vacancies to get more ideas.

    As for being tired - this may sound stupid but drink lots of water.. I felt tired and bored for a while and when I started drinking litres and litres of water I felt like my brain had more oxygen and I was alert much more throughout the day. However, tiredness could be due to the rows and the general dissatisfaction you are having with life right now.

    Have you sat down with your parents and talked about why there is tension?

    Seriously, please consider going to a counsellor. I understand that money is a problem but this could be an investment for your well being and health.


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    *Page*
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    How old are you?


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    Einstein
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    I agree with Gordon.

    Sometimes Medical advice only helps if you realise why you're there in the first place.
    Don't feel bad or silly about seeing a counsellor. I saw one once or twice for something really silly, but my god it felt so good afterwards. Honest, consider it, whats the worst that can happen?

    D..


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    LegacyUser
    Registered Users Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I’m in my early 20's...

    What’s the worse that could happen..? I could end but with some label hanging over my head...

    I grew up with a manic-depressive with multiple personalities...

    He said I was BI-polar 2 or something like that before he killed himself...

    I know what happens to people that end up with mental labels in this country!

    Sorry feeling very negitive.


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    Victor
    Registered Users Posts: 78,352 ✭✭✭✭Victor


    Sounds rough.

    If you don't like labels, then don't accept them. Its not current terminology to refer to "diabetics", merely "John with diabetes" - John is still a human being like you and me, diabetes need not define him.

    Anyway, let someone else diagnose you - self-diagnosis isn't very successful.


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    Maynooth
    Closed Accounts Posts: 368 ✭✭Maynooth


    unreg_becoz wrote:
    I have this large shadow hanging over me...

    I've been with this guy who treats me well but amits that he doesnt love me nor will he ever...
    I hate my job..


    Get rid of the two of them for starters.


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