Ok for sixth year girl to ask fifth year to debs?

sabriel

Hi im a sixth year girl (just turned 17 in may)thinkin of asking a fifth year to debs. Noticed that most girls are askin older or in same years.Are/did/would any girls out there invite someone in a younger year?

Talliesin

It happens all the time. Go for it.

Gangsta

I wouldn't mind being asked by a 6th yr at all.

Crucifix

Yeah, it's fine, go for it.

snappieT

I've asked a 5th year girl to my debs...

Ph3n0m

To be honest, you shouldnt be asking other people whether it is fine or not - if you like the person you are going to invite, then there is no problem.

You might get the odd person who thinks its strange bringing someone younger, but if in your case, you like the person or get on well with them - then thats who anyone should prefer to go with - someone who will make the night fun and memorable (I know it sounds cheesy but it is true)

Anyways have a blast

senordingdong

Do you not think you're cutting it a bit short....I mean, he's going to need more time than this to decide what he's gonna wear, and how to do his hair.....

anna20

of course its ok

KlodaX

when I was in 5th year I went to a 6th years debs ... I think its a common enough thing ... I wouldn't stress over it!

I also know someone who brought a 4th year to his debs

deisedolly

I know a few girls who have asked younger fellas and no one gave it a second thought. Nobody will care at all I'm telling you!

Mimikyu

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Kevin_rc_ie

yeah it's fine but be gentle with him

The Bollox

you can ask whoever you want, it don't make a difference, if you want to bring him then bring him

Alana

Do it. I went to my friends debs when i was in fifth yr...once he's a good friend and you can av a laugh with him, that's all that matters really, at the end of the day its ur goddam debs, you should have the bestest time and to hell what other ppl think, sure a friend of mine brought her 30 year old boyfriend to the debs-she had a good time, has fond memories of the night-and that's the most important thing

PeadarofAodh

I'm going to my 6th year girlfriend's debs so hopefully there's no laws against it!

nutzboutstuff2

I brought a friend who was in 5th year to my debs, had a great time to and he got on brilliantly with all of my mates! No one will care, other people will bring stranger dates. One guy at mine was bragging all year that he was bringing lesbians! Well he did and they danced together all night and ignored him and he sat on his own in a corner!

up for anything

I brought my fifth year boyfriend to my debs and nobody thought it strange. As it was a boarding school not many of the girls had boyfriends they could ask as they didn't get much chance to form steady relationships during the holidays (this was back in the dark ages) so most of them ended up taking each others brothers and nobody thought twice about it. Go for it.

OY

Go for it and have fun! In two years time you dating this guy or whatever would not even be thought about. What is the difference?

As said already, if you like him and want to bring him then there is no problem. And if someone does have a problem you send them to us...

We will cyber kick their a**!

Kevin_rc_ie

ure a friend of mine brought her 30 year old boyfriend to the debs-she had a good time,

i think this is a bit weird.

gsand

do it do it

doonothing

my mate was in 2nd year when he went to his girlfriends debs.
you're grand

sabriel

Yep guess I was just being stupid.Nerves an all! Asked him anyway an he said yes.

Scarinae

I went to a debs at the beginning of third year, ok admittedly most of the people there wouldn't have known I was that young and I did look older, but it was grand. I'm a year and a half older than my boyfriend and he's coming to my debs, and LOADS of the fifth years are coming along to the debs as well - nobody will care, just make sure he's someone you can have a laugh with and someone who will get on well with your friends, as you don't want to have to babysit him all night

Kevin_rc_ie

doonothing wrote:

my mate was in 2nd year when he went to his girlfriends debs.
you're grand

what a legend

Shrimp

most definalty..

LegacyUser

Who cares these days, luv. Oireland seems to be moving more and more away from 'The Valley of The Squinting Windows'.

LadyJ

OP,of course this is "ok"! I ask fifth years out all the time and I'm in college!:D

Dr.Feelgood

Do it!!

randombassist

I doubt anyone would even notice if you're self conciouse about it. Not many people are going to go around asking what age/ year people are in. It's just meant to be a fun night, so invite the person you think you'd have the best time with!