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she being a great friend or meaning something more

  • 21-05-2005 8:46pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Similar script to some of the other confused and what does it mean threads.longish post! Any advise/opinions appreciated.

    I've been having a long distance relationship since i moved to start a job. Been seeing this girl for many yrs and things arent as good as they could be. I never have nor wouldnt cheat on anyone.

    ive made friends with this great single girl, who happens to be related to a colleague. Everyone @ work knows that ive a gf. This girl in question however doesnt know as far as im aware unless my mate has told her. i havent told her. My private life is private and i dont openly talk about it. We hang out about once a week. Call to each others house or go for dinner. i really like spending time with her and i know that i really fancy her. She on the other hand i feel is recovering from a break up or something, dont know exactly but she seems in no rush to meet a guy. She given me this vibe a few times.

    I met with her recently and told her that people were talking about us. The answer was people just need something to gossip about. At same time ppl we know passed by her house and she asked me if i wanted to wave out the window to them.

    Ive 2 parties coming up where i will know about 2 people @ one and a good few at the other and since my gf wasnt coming(long story), i was going to go alone. wanted to ask this girl but knew it might seem like it was me wanting to take us to a more serious level. A day after telling her bout this event and not asking her to go with me, she text me and said that if i wanted her to go with me she would, if i didnt no worries. As she knew how awkward it was to go to stuff like this alone. I said i'd be delighted if she came. ill tell her ive a gf. Im trying to figure out if shes just being a great friend by offering to come or am i reading too much into it??


Comments

  • #2
    Victor
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 78,579 ✭✭✭✭Victor


    I think you've been deceiving this girl about your girlfriend, yeah you can cheat, but it's hardly fair on anyone.


  • #3
    KnowItAll
    Closed Accounts Posts: 348 ✭✭KnowItAll


    It sounds like she likes you. You'll find out how she feels at the party. Get her plenty of drink and she'll start talking!


  • #4
    OfflerCrocGod
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,334 ✭✭✭OfflerCrocGod


    I think you like each other if your relationship is on the rocks then you may want to break it off for this one instead, go on you only live once.


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