friend or more?

chillywilly

okay, i just want to get an opinion on this issue. Ive been hanging around with this girl(im a guy) for about 3 years. We used to have an aul kiss at the weekends and so on. But the last time we did that was about 2 years ago and since then we have been good friends. I just realised recently that i really fancy this girl but i dont know how she would react after so long being friends etc. But i still think there is a subconcious flirting going on between us,if you know what i mean! Since the last time i was with her neither of us have asked or been rejected by one another.

has anyone been in a similar situation or got advise?

thanks

Gordon

2 years ago and you just realised recently that you fancy her?! My god man!

Just speak to her or kiss her for goodness sake! You've done it before, do it again.

LadyJ

I would say get drunk and see what happens but if you like her then you should probably either say so or bring up the subject in a matter-of-fact kinda way.
"Remember when we used to get it on? Well I was just wondering..."

OfflerCrocGod

Alcohol is your friend.

chillywilly

hmmm, i do like alcohol.....

OfflerCrocGod

chillywilly wrote:

hmmm, i do like alcohol.....

Also make sure your friend has lots of it too, then see what transpires.

hardCopy

Just don't get so messed up that you can't remember what happened, that really complicates things

Ruhan

Just push her up against the wall, drawl out to her "how about a good old-fashioned, shirt-drenching snog, like we used to do" and go in, tounges akimbo!



Chicks dig that sort of ****.

Beruthiel

the next person who gives unhelpful advice, gets banned
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Emmo

what about asking her how she feels?

Kind of like a grown up might do, you know seeing as how you might like to have a relationship with her?

Dont do it drunk, prove that its not a just a drunk horney thing and its actual genuine attraction.

Emmo