my new boyfriend..

LegacyUser

okay, some serious help here needed. i just told my mum that i have a boyfriend, only been going out a few days.. but i've never told her that i've had a bf before. i'm 15 and she thinks i'm too young to be dating. i told her 'cause im more than just lustful about this guy.. any suggestions on how to make her see the light and make it alright? please ANY ideas are helpful!

hussey

she's just looking out for you .. she just doesn't want to see her little angel get hurt .. which you will at some stage!!

how about introduce her to him? make her see he's a nice guy and isn't going to do anything to hurt you

simu

Make sure your grades at school don't drop or she'll blame it on him!

ferdi

simu wrote:

Make sure your grades at school don't drop or she'll blame it on him!

sounds like the voice of experience?

simu

ferdi wrote:

sounds like the voice of experience?

No, unfortunately - I was a complete nerd at school. But my mother always panics about schoolwork when my siblings start dating so I think it's good advice.

Cutie18Ireland

just bring him round to meet her and put her mind at rest even if he's only calling around to pick you up...

LegacyUser

simu wrote:

Make sure your grades at school don't drop or she'll blame it on him!

yeah that's good advice.. have summer exams coming up and i havn't started studying for them yet. i have a different reason for my grades dropping, family issue..

A$$A$$IN

Bring him over, she'll think he's great you'll all be happy seriously. If the lad makes an impression your sound

seamus

Parents are always mindful of relationships with young people. She knows what young boys are after. She'll be unhappy, but I'd doubt she'd stand much in the way of it. She should know better.

Give her about a month, then have him call over to the house. It's a slow process of getting her used to it.

Imp7

Everyone's dead right, if you introduce your mom and bf then it'll give her the opportunity to get to know him and hopefully like him too. If he's a decent guy and you like him so much I'm sure she will too.

azezil

regretful.. wrote:

okay, some serious help here needed. i just told my mum that i have a boyfriend, only been going out a few days..

far too early to be bringing a guy over!

bit early to be getting serious also, just take it easy, see how the relationship goes, then if you're still together in a few months, bring him over.

stagolee

you could tell your ma that your bringing the bf round to meet her and then pay some strange smelly 50 year old wino a fiver to pretend he's him.

when the initial coniptions have died down to a reasonable level shunt the old alky out the door and bring in the real bf who you've cleverly stashed outside.

your ma's sense of releif will be so great that she will imediatley give her blessing to you both

(this probably wont actualy work )

hussey

azezil wrote:

far too early to be bringing a guy over!

bit early to be getting serious also, just take it easy, see how the relationship goes, then if you're still together in a few months, bring him over.

not when 15! after a few days she's calling him her bf ..
all innocent back then!!

LegacyUser

it's too early to be bringing him over.. she keeps saying how happy i've been recently, i told her it was because of him, which it is..

LegacyUser

it's too early to bring a guy over..
i've known this guy longer than a few days.. didn't just meet him and agree to go out with him..

simu

Do you have older brothers and sisters? If so, ask them what they did when they first started going out with people.

If you're the first born, then expect your parents to be over-protective and freak out at things they will later let your younger siblings do without blinking an eye.

LegacyUser

i have older brothers.. but the problem there is they never had their gf's round, only ever met 1 gf of my bro's who he is now friends with.. other than that i've never _known_ about any gfs...