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Help with a Love situation.

  • 03-05-2005 4:53pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Over the past few months I've found a potential soulmate.
    I thought he liked me too but I can't be sure.

    Anyway, one slight problem: We're never going to see each other ever again. Our paths won't cross next year because we're doing different courses.

    What on earth should I do?


Comments

  • Closed Accounts Posts: 414 ✭✭gsand


    if u are never going to see each other again then what else is there to do???

    unless u mean ull never see him again unless u do something about it...in which case surely u have nothing to lose...if it works great, if it dosnt u never see him again and all is fine

    sounds good to me???


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 35,954 ✭✭✭✭Larianne


    If he's your soulmate, run after him girl!! They are hard to find so grab him and if he doesnt deel the same, sure it's no biggy. You'll get over it. Ya don't wanna live with the regret of not telling him. Just do it!!!! ;)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 108 ✭✭Dreamcatcher


    If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they're yours; if they don't they never were.
    There's always email! Enjoy and develop well in your studies. No reason not to stay in touch. I assume that you're late teens, early 20s. Relax. Look foward. It's not the end, it may only be the beginning...!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 10,730 ✭✭✭✭simu


    That "soulmate" thing is a myth. There are plenty of people out there with whom you'd get on just as well.

    Indeed, how can he be a soulmate if you're not even sure he likes you?


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,122 ✭✭✭LadyJ


    Just get his number. What's the worst that can happen???!


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 7,458 ✭✭✭CathyMoran


    Get their email or number...you can leave things up to chance to a certain extent but if you like him you could ask for his number (as friends if you are nervous)...good luck :)


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 155 ✭✭JoeKelly


    'Soulmate' pretty strong word to use. If your lookin for someone to tell you to drop everything and run after him think again because really we dont know a great deal about your life to give such advice (typical tv answer)--> its something you have to decide. If your actually willing to change your life for this guy then it sound like maybe he is your soulmate but are you sure he feels the same? Would he drop everything to stay with you?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 786 ✭✭✭spudington16


    Larianne wrote:
    If he's your soulmate, run after him girl!! They are hard to find so grab him and if he doesnt deel the same, sure it's no biggy. You'll get over it. Ya don't wanna live with the regret of not telling him. Just do it!!!! ;)

    Do you honestly believ in soulmates? There has to be more than one person out there for everyone. It's a mathamtical certainty.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    When I say say soulmate, I don't mean that he is like: the one.

    I only mean, that there is extreme potential for an amazingly deep relationship.

    And thank you for the advice.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 142 ✭✭r3boot


    no such thing as a soulmate, there are people you like and you don't; people you can live with and can't.

    what people call their soulmate is the person they look forward to seeing allday.


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