should i shouldnt i what should i do

LegacyUser

Hi

Ive got a slight problem its nothing to big only my head cant figure it out maybe some advice from you peeps just might ya no help me to ,
decide what to do .

Here we go i meet a girl a very nice girl she has a sence of humer
and shes cool .Now heres were it get complacated i meet her on a chat room
on the net what the hell do i do we talk alot about everything , and we booth are single . we have loads of similar intrests but theres only one probelm we havent meet .

i would like to ask this lady out on a date but im not shore weather thats such a good idea and i dont want to make a blistering idiot of my self eather .

now can any one help ? i relise it sounds kinda sad and i dont useally do things like this but shore theres nothing i can do ....

so what ya think any ideas plz .....

thanks so much for dvice in advance ..

ps admin id like to say i did search the froum but i couldnt sind anything regarding this problem ....

neuro-praxis

There doesn't seem to be a problem. Ask her out, and meet in a public place (in case she's actually a 75 year old man with a hatchett).

Good luck.

secret_squirrel

Do it ask her out - I've met several birds from the net - only one turned out badly and that was my fault.

WhiteWashMan

just ask her to meet up at some stage.
or sit at home talking dirty to one another over irc.
whatever.

the_syco

If your a lad, meet somewhere public. If your woman, bring a friend. If you an underaged girl or boy, bring someone you trust, perferably someone big.

If they want to meet "in private", and your underage, its a trap. Its proberly a trap anyhoo's, so meet in a public place.

A little paranoia is healthy.

LegacyUser

meet her. i met my ex over the net and we were together for 3 years! ive had a few one nighters from the net too and they all worked out pretty well.

BEAT

well, if you spell like that when you chat online with her and she is still around then I'd say you have a good chance, so go for it.

rugbug86

BEAT wrote:

well, if you spell like that when you chat online with her and she is still around then I'd say you have a good chance, so go for it.

thats terrible!

LegacyUser

neuro-praxis

trusr me man she aint 75 shes old enough .

white wash man

ha ha very funny man i aint no internet sleaze .

Beat

dude thanks so musch for your help and your comment on spelling ...

syco

were booth in are 20s

So how does one go about askin a bird on the internet ?
im glad to see that yal all thionk its ok

Larianne

I met one of my bestest mates from the net. Been friends with him for 3 years now! I love him to bits! definately do it! It's less worrying for a guy to meet up. BUt when you're asking the girl make sure you don't come across as a weirdo.

If you get on so well I'm sure she'll be happy to meet up with you. And when you do it will prob be awkward for a minute and then you'll be chatting away again. That's what happened with me.

Just do it!!!

WhiteWashMan

mad professer wrote:

white wash man

ha ha very funny man i aint no internet sleaze .

sure. then just ask her if she would like to meet up for a coffee or a pint.

jesus christ, its not that hard, just make sure you spell check in Word before hand. otherwise she will think youre 12.

banbutcher

netmeeter wrote:

meet her. i met my ex over the net and we were together for 3 years! ive had a few one nighters from the net too and they all worked out pretty well.

with a name like that im not supprised!! lol

Gordon

WhiteWashMan wrote:

sure. then just ask her if she would like to meet up for a coffee or a pint.

jesus christ, its not that hard, just make sure you spell check in Word before hand. otherwise she will think youre 12.

WWM, you are not one to talk! (although I think you have been Wording it for a couple of weeks)

WhiteWashMan

i have a broken keyboard, besides, my problem is that i hit keys and the space bar out of sequence, not that im a bad speller

anyway, please stay on topic gordie.

but i think its a good point, how many people come on here as someone anonymous, and use text speak to tell of how heart broken they are etc, and you come out the end of a post thinking they are about 13?

i think its important to communicate in a way that shows the importance of the conversation.

Rockiemalt

if you go on a date with her bring her somewhere you can talk, not the cinema! might be a good idea to meet us as friends before you go on a date though. The net's all well and good but people can be different online and in person good luck

LegacyUser

thank u peoples u gave some good advice , lets hope it dont go pare shaped
but i dont think it will we boothseem to no how to have fun .......
so i bid you a chew ......................


thanks oncw again

gsand

suggest a mutual meeting of friends. you bring friends, you interweb besty does the same. mebe they all hook up too. fun for everyone.

LadyJ

Isn't there a boards beers coming up soon? Meet her at that.
It's safe and if you hate each other then make your excuses and go talk to someone else!

LegacyUser

well i dont drink tbh only ocasionally i dont really like it so the coffe idea would be a better one to be honest i was thinkin of makeing an excuse to meet up so we could get to no each other then askin her on a date .....

think it would be better that way plus i can read her body languge which is kinda important plus see how we interact as people not threw the net ..

and then make a dession weather to take it any further , id prefer not to get my friends involved as when ever there around women they turn into ass holes and well that dont go down well with the ladys plus they rely on other people to find them there women and there anoying to have around hence why there single im only single cause im kinda shy ....

r3boot

good luck ....