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Drummer · 2005-04-21 22:33:13

Need to know, especially from girls, whether it is a good idea to ask a girl from work out ?

21-04-2005 10:33pm

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Need to know, especially from girls, whether it is a good idea to ask a girl from work out ?

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#2 21-04-2005 10:35pm

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Drummer wrote:

Need to know, especially from girls, whether it is a good idea to ask a girl from work out ?

:rolleyes:
This question would be better suited here http://www.boards.ie/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=127

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#3 21-04-2005 10:38pm

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Well that link either goes to the Humour forum or the Personal Issues forum - either way im banned - FOR NO REASON I MIGHT ADD !

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#4 21-04-2005 10:44pm

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Well it depends, if you work closely with each other, it could be risky. However if you don't why not?

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#5 21-04-2005 10:51pm

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Yo !

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#6 21-04-2005 10:53pm

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Go for it... the worst that can happen is that you have a bad breakup and have to see her every day at work... but if awkward silences aren't a problem for you, then it's all good.

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#7 21-04-2005 10:55pm

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That's not the worst that can happen - i can live with akward silences, they just aint akward to me.

The worst that cud happen is she cud say "no"

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#8 21-04-2005 10:57pm

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Ah of course, she says 'no' and you've got the awkwardness and you haven't even gotten some action out of it... yeah that's worse.

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#9 21-04-2005 11:02pm

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Im only in the place temporarily. Was meant to finish last week. On a week to week now, so i might wait til im finishing up, then email her. That way, ill be gone if she says no, on my toes !

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#10 21-04-2005 11:06pm

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Drummer wrote:

Im only in the place temporarily. Was meant to finish last week. On a week to week now, so i might wait til im finishing up, then email her. That way, ill be gone if she says no, on my toes !

Well then! You've nothing to lose, get your ass over to her desk/place/general location and ask her out.

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#11 21-04-2005 11:08pm

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Hafta wait a few weeks til im leaving.

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#12 21-04-2005 11:11pm

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You could try staying friends with her then see what happens for your leaving do/suggest a few drinks when you are leaving?

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#13 21-04-2005 11:13pm

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There probably wouldnt be a leaving do. Im only there two weeks. Anyway, being friends with a girl doesnt work. Its either friends or partners. Can never go with a girl that you have been friends with.

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#14 21-04-2005 11:17pm

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Why not suggest going out for a few drinks with her and 2 others? Maybe you could try being friends with her and then see what happens - I am opposite to you in that I have never not been friends with somone that I dated.

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#15 21-04-2005 11:17pm

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Moved to PI.

Thank you, come again.

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