life is getting worse

cman

everything was goin great with this girl and i fancied and i was preety sure she fancied me until my friend came along who i think she fancies more than me. i am 14 and i'm still a frigit and i thought she wud be the one. now i feel really depressed

Coney Island

Don't be depressed, you are very young and in the next 20 years you will go through plenty of similar situations....too soon to find "the one", thrust me!

By the way, how can you be so sure that she fancies your friend more than you??? You should fight for her, and if you lose, kick your friend

arbeitsscheuer

Yeah, what have you to lose? Go for it man!!
One of my biggest regrets is that I never fought for anythin til it was too late anyway, I was a frigit for too long meself.
You're too young to have found the one (or at least you can't know for certain she's the one til you've been going out a while, at least IMO). So just try to have fun, go with the flow, and if ya get knocked back - F**k it, it's her loss right?

Gordon

What's a frigit these days?* A Virgin?


*God, I'm showing my age

arbeitsscheuer

I dunno meself, I just assumed a "frigit" is someone who lacks self-confidence, is very shy of intimacy and that kinda stuff... I dunno really. Usually a frigit is someone who has never kissed anyone. Can be a virgin, I guess.

Zillah

I'm 20 now, and in my younger teen days a frigit was someone that had never kissed(or "met'...) anyone....


Really it doesn't matter. It really doesn't. In five years time you'll have kissed a dozen people, after that you be worrying about being a virgin. Five years after that you'll have slept with plenty of people. Then sex doesn't seem so important. Don't get hung on this sort of crap, you don't have to answer to anyone, you'll move at your own pace.

The_B_Man

seems like the girl took the easy route. ur friend probably made it more obvious that he liked her so rather than her sittin around and guessin whether u liked her or not she just went off with ur friend who she was guaranteed not to get turned down by.
simple.

Victor

Gordon wrote:

What's a frigit these days?* A Virgin?

Possibly a corruption of "frigid"?

Otherwise, this is a Frigit

http://www.thinkgeek.com/cubegoodies/toys/3627/action/20fcaaf/

case n basket

I just realised I'm going to be one of those uncles/parents who think they are really 'hip' but... aren't.

Dathai

A frigit is someone who hasnt kissed anyone.

Dude, Im 15, I only kissed a girl when I was 14.Im with someone now who I am in love with.She was the 1st girl Ive ever kissed, and Im in love with her. You can get someone else, just be more open with people.Go to parties, talk to people.Get loose with them.Thats why I never kissed anyone until my current girlfriend.

Victor

case n basket wrote:

I just realised I'm going to be one of those uncles/parents who think they are really 'hip' but... aren't.

We will never be hip. We can however hope to be less un-hip.*

* Or whatever the appropriate word will be when the time comes