Should I date my exgirlfriend?

Glipmac

Well here is the problem, I started going out with this girl we'll call her Miss.A things went well for a week but we decided it was not working. A few days later she went to OZ and that was that (so i thought) A few days after she got back as i am a man i was pretty petty by not acknolageing here but that was my fault, anyway saw one of my friends on the bus and she gave me my ex's new number with the message to call her.

So i rang her and asked her what she wanted, She said and i quote

"you know i said i did not love you (she did not use the L word before this call), i kinda kept thinking about you all the time i was away" now i am stuck what should i do? advice please all will be read do not worry...

Glipmac :cool:

garthv

Well it was only a week, Give it a shot and see what happens.
If it fizzles out,it fizzles out

D

Take it as it comes and be sure that you are both very honest with each other about how the relationship is going.

Glipmac

yes but part of me says yes and part of me says no it feel ilike i am being torn in two

Glip :cool:

WizZard

You can't tell a lot after one week really. Give it a shot, it may work out? If not, no biggie, right?

Glipmac

one main thing i am worried about is that she gets on the same bus as me and if I screw it up then i will worry and it might get worse...

Glip

WhiteWashMan

call her and meet up.
stop worrying. women hate a worrier. its what turns them off blokes.

Glipmac

i suppose you're right

but i dont know if i still feel the same as i did the first time i went out with her

Glip

A.S.H.

Use of the "L" word is a ramp up in the relationship and could be too much too soon. but I think you should meet up with her, and see how things go. Don't rush into anything but you don't want to miss out either. As to you seeing her on the bus everyday and your worries about how that will go if it ends badly, don't worry about it, worst case scenario and it ends horribly with violence and screaming and the like, you will probably just ignore each other on the bus. just bring a walkman and listen to the radio.

WhiteWashMan

Glipmac wrote:

but i dont know if i still feel the same as i did the first time i went out with her

youre right. you should probably stay at home, and then mope around a bit, and be depressed. that ought to make you feel better.

Glipmac

i value your advice very highly A.S.H, although i have only known you for a short period of time Cheers

i value ALL opinions EQUALY thank you please dont stop posting the i still need to know what people think, also this advice may go on to help others in the same situation as me.

Glip

p.s Sarcasum Not appreciated (although quite amuseing)