My best friend

LegacyUser

i know i sound like a stupid teen but anyway, ill post this. So last year i broke up with my ex boyfriend and said i wouldnt go out with anyone for a few years as i was with him for a long time and i was a bit damaged by the break up.

So i became really good friends with this guy in my course who was after going through the same thing as me and we became really close and i started to really like him. But i knew he wasnt looking for a serious relationship so i never told him that i liked him. he also has this rule that he doesnt get with his best mates.

Anyway on saturday night we were out and he kissed me. i didnt iniate it. it was totally him.

so now im wondering does he like me? should i tell him that i like him or will i just end up loosing a really good mate??

sorry for posting such a stupid problem but any advice would be great. guys and emotions are like closed books.

rugbug86

i'd say leave it and see what happens. see if he says anything. if he doesnt, u kiss him, that way the balls in his court...
was it a drunken thing?

tinkerbell

If it was a drunken kiss, then I'd be very wary. Bring it up next time you're together in a playful kinda way, without sounding serious.

Just because he has a "rule", doesn't mean that rule can't be broken

Dinxminx

tinkerbell wrote:

Just because he has a "rule", doesn't mean that rule can't be broken

Rules are made to be broken.....

mayordenis

I think its a reasonably safe bet that he likes you . . .
almost definate.

kasintahan

If he wasn't drunk then he likes you.

If he was drunk he may very well like you but it's not certain.

He's a guy. You can ask us things like this directly, just be prepared for a blunt answer (no crying).

WhiteWashMan

whattodo wrote:

Anyway on saturday night we were out and he kissed me. i didnt iniate it. it was totally him.

so now im wondering does he like me? should i tell him that i like him or will i just end up loosing a really good mate??

why dont you just ask him about the kissing, and if you get a positive vibe, say you liked it, and youd like to do it more.

if you get a negative vibe, like 'oh i was just drunk' push him on it and say, oh you didnbt like the way i kiss in a mock anger way.
he may just be embarassed.

on the other hand, he could have been drunk and horny.

i mean seriously,. what do you think?

he probably thinks youre a hottie, you probabaly have great tits,and he has probably whacked off thinking about cumming in your mouth.

why dont you just go out and have more drinks and more kisses and stop analyzing, and start enjoying. and who knows, maybe his masturbation fantasies could become a reality....

Victor

I invoke the decorum rule.

But, OP, he probably does like you.*

* This may not mean he wants to marry you