liquid eyes

LegacyUser

I'm trying to find out what I'm feeling. This may seem a stupid question, I'm just over analysing and need outside perspective.

If you told someone you loved them and they just sort of looked at you and then they started crying, like eyes filling with water and running down face. Uncontrolable not upset just over whelmed, and really didn't know how to reply.

What would you think?

WizZard

I'd talk to them and ask them how they felt.

leggo

Not knowing the person or in-depth situation, I'm thinking that this is a person who's had DEEP issues with love in the past (possibly even suffer from a little daddy-didn't-love-me syndrome) and her reaction to your declaration represented her WANTING to trust and believe you, but not being able to.

But maybe that's just me.

Uthur

There seem to be two likely answers

1) They were overcome with happiness
2) They've been badly hurt in this situation before.

You should ask them how they feel!

Zombrex

liquidEyes wrote:

I'm trying to find out what I'm feeling. This may seem a stupid question, I'm just over analysing and need outside perspective.

If you told someone you loved them and they just sort of looked at you and then they started crying, like eyes filling with water and running down face. Uncontrolable not upset just over whelmed, and really didn't know how to reply.

What would you think?

I would say "Only messing loser!!" and see what happens

Seriously, it could mean absolutly anything, with no background information as to who the person is, their relationship with you, or what was happpening at the time, I can honestly say I have no idea what to think.

Why don't you ask them why they started crying. It certainly wouldn't be your average response to that statement

LegacyUser

Lego could be right. It might be a bit of daddy-didn't-love-me syndrome. It must be subconsious.

I can't ask them how they feel. It was me that did it. I don't know what I was feeling, thats why I'm asking. He doesn't appear to be annoyed with me, and he has come to this conclusion very rapidly. I thought I may have loved him but just don't know it. It just made me very emotional. I wanted to know why? I assumed its cause I love him back but just couldn't say it. I really don't know. I don't think I'm in love, not yet anyway, too early. I just couldn't understand my reaction, if I don't love him why did I get so emotional?

Dinxminx

What age are you? Maybe you just felt out of your depth and caught off guard. How long have you known him?

LegacyUser

I'm in my Late 20s. I can't see what age has to do with it though. I've known him about 6 months.

Dinxminx

Well just, if you were sixteen it would be hormones.......

Maybe you're afraid of, you know, "letting him in"? I know it sounds corny but.....

Beruthiel

liquidEyes wrote:

I'm in my Late 20s. I can't see what age has to do with it though. I've known him about 6 months.

surely at your age you would just ask him instead of us?

LegacyUser

We did. Its not a problem, I just wanted an outside perspective. We are very close and talk about everything. I just wanted to know why I did it? He doesn't know either. Its a very weird reaction in my opinion. I must have just been overwhelmed. At the time I posted this I thought my reason for being overwhelmed was that I loved him too. I wanted to see if anyone else thought that too. Now I think I'm just an emotional ejit. But thats ok, he still loves me like that.

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I've once ever gotten so over whelmed that tears just ran down my face!!

What i found out was that i truely loved this person and telling them that i loved them ment so much to me. I got very emotional and got teary!...