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dating neighbours

  • 06-04-2005 9:48am
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 515 ✭✭✭


    there is this girl i live near next door to infact. we have been friends since childhood, now i want to ask her out. do ye think i should go for it and do you think she would act differently towards me afterwards if she said no? :cool: were both now in our early twenties


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  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,362 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    what do you think?
    if you know her since childhood then I think that you can answer those questions better than any of us can


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 515 ✭✭✭daithimac


    I'm pretty certain i should go for it but i got bad experience dating neighbours. did it once before and it exploded like hiroshima. gennerally what i want to know is do women usually act differently towards a guy after they have asked her out


  • Moderators, Computer Games Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 18,809 Mod ✭✭✭✭Kimbot


    I was friends with many girls for years and asked them out and they said no (only a few) and we can still talk away to each other no problem at all. They only thing about this is does your neighbour show any interest in you???


  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,362 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    daithimac wrote:
    gennerally what i want to know is do women usually act differently towards a guy after they have asked her out

    again
    everyone is different, hence the difficulty of any of us knowing for sure...
    from what you know of her, would she?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,423 ✭✭✭tinkerbell


    Go for it! The worst that could happen is that she says no, and even if she did say no - your friendship will survive it coz ye've been friends for so long.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 20,099 ✭✭✭✭WhiteWashMan


    ask her out and stop worrying about it.
    either she will or she wont.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 3,964 ✭✭✭memphis


    Just ask her out, what have you to lose?

    Is she says no, at least you know where you stand, and as you are pals for so long, i'd doubt that the relationship would crumble just cos you showed an interest in her.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,435 ✭✭✭ixus


    The sooner you do it the better, less pressure builds up in you.
    get it of your chest as such


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 24,367 ✭✭✭✭Sleepy


    There's a reason why "the girl next door" and "the boy next door" are written into so many movies. It's incredibly common to get together with your neighbours. Go for it. A life without risk, is a live unlived.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 25 Miner


    A friend of mine married the boy accross the road and her sister married the boy down the road - everything's ticketyboo! Go for it


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 114 ✭✭daz42C


    Go for it before it is too late!I fancied one of my neighbours and was going to ask her out but then she told me she was going out with my cousin.I could of F***in....


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 515 ✭✭✭daithimac


    cheers i was really woried what would happen in case of a negative reaction and now my minds at ease. cheers


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