girls can get guys, guys cant get girls

lateasever

following on from that what makes a girl/ guy hot thread, id just like to comment on the fact that it seems much easier for a girl to get a guy than vice versa. these days it seems like every girl has got high as hell standards, and can more or less take their pick- even the mings with no personality.

whats up with that?

Sir Digby Chicken Caesar

HAHA

get out of my forum

Bottle_of_Smoke

lateasever wrote:

following on from that what makes a girl/ guy hot thread, id just like to comment on the fact that it seems much easier for a girl to get a guy than vice versa. these days it seems like every girl has got high as hell standards, and can more or less take their pick- even the mings with no personality.

whats up with that?

You're right in that in a club scenario a girl has a better chance if she just wants a random score.

In general its equal for both sides, just as easy for guys to get a girlfriend as it is for girls to get a boyfriend.

Guys typically do more of the courting, maybe that's how you're percieving things

Jonny Arson

lateasever wrote:

following on from that what makes a girl/ guy hot thread, id just like to comment on the fact that it seems much easier for a girl to get a guy than vice versa. these days it seems like every girl has got high as hell standards, and can more or less take their pick- even the mings with no personality.

whats up with that?

Could be true but donno really. I would agree that girls have so much more power in choosing blokes than blokes have in choosing girls.

What I find weird though is that it seems to me is that all the girls I know have boyfriends. Its like there must be a bunch of blokes hogging a bunch of girls maybe four girls to one guy or something. Is there any single females in left in this world?

kasintahan

She may have the OPPORTUNITY to score more, BUT IT IS A GUY SHE IS SCORING!

Therefore while your scoring ratio may be poor, the ratio MUST even out.
(ie. some guys must be scoring more than you).

secret_squirrel

kasintahan wrote:

She may have the OPPORTUNITY to score more, BUT IT IS A GUY SHE IS SCORING!

Therefore while your scoring ratio may be poor, the ratio MUST even out.
(ie. some guys must be scoring more than you).

ergo you are the minger!

kittenkiller

In my humble opinion (& fictitious fact creating brain...)

85% of girls can score 85% of guys

Only 15% of guys can score 85% of girls (the more attractive than most guys)

And 85% of guys can score 15% of girls (the not-so-attractive-&-kinda-desperate-girls)

I could conduct a survey but i think i'd get arrested & given out to!

BEAT

I am sure you werent around when this thread was created a dozen times ago since there are new members joining at an insane rate so I will just say,
dont be ridicuolus. Women have just as hard a time at it as guys do, maybe if you got off your seat and approached more you'd have better results?
the more you put yourself out there the more likely you are to get results...no matter who you are. It is just the way it is, i know when I go out if I sit ther and expect someone to come up to me I will go home alone, you have to mingle and if your are socially inept, practice makes perfect.

Everyone, yes even girls, get rejected...trust me I know
but if you let it discourage you then prepare to be alone for a long time. Its all a part of the experience, learn to let it roll off you and move on to the next one...rejection happens to everyone, its the ones who can brush it off and hope the next one wont who meet the ones who dont.
Eventually you will run into the girl who fancies you for whatever reason

Banjo013

Personally I think it depends on where you go alot of the time.

Average Joe like me walks into one if the "trendy" bars (*yuck**spit*) in town - Cafe en Seine for example - there isn't a chicken's chance in China I'd score.

There's a certain type in this kinda place looking for a specific thing. Basically, the girls are all the long blonde haired size 10 types, looking for a rich guy to keep her for life. The guys are the tan leather coat and Rolex wearing type who are looking for a trophey to keep. So someone like me who might be looking for a nice girl who's happy to earn her own money and have her own independence is def in the wrong house.

All about mismatch I guess at the end of the day ... you've got to pick a joint that matches you and the type of person you might be looking for.

Was in California last year. Walk up ANY girl of ANY appearance in a bar over there and she won't even bother saying hello until you've answered the standard 3 questions :-

1. What do you do for a living ?
2. Where do you live and how big is your house ?
3. What kind of car do you drive ?

Needless to say I didn't get past the first question with any of them !

Anyway - I think Dublin is to a degree going the same way - at least in certain places - there are clear divisions even within classes appearing. Then of course that leads to people getting ideas above their station, but that's my topic for tomorrows thesis !

Did I slide slightly off topic there ? Sorry !

RuggieBear

BEAT wrote:

....

Everyone, yes even girls, get rejected...trust me I know

just bring twinkies and you'll have men falling over themselves to get closer....

Sleepy

Sure, for every girl that pulls, there's a guy too. This doesn't actually shed any light on who did the "pulling". In Ireland today, the women definitely seem to have the "power". I think a lot of this comes down to the fact that, in general, women have a lower libido than men. When us men go out on the town, we're out to have a laugh with the lads sure, but a large part of the night out for us is about pulling. Girls tend to go out more to have the fun with their friends than to pull. Our higher libidos drive us to this position. So, with more men out there that are looking for women, than women looking for a man, the women have the power. Simple supply and demand really.

DublinWriter

lateasever wrote:

these days it seems like every girl has got high as hell standards, and can more or less take their pick- even the mings with no personality.

whats up with that?

It's because, just as dogs can smell fear, women can smell desperation, and in certain parts of the country, persperation too.

With the right personality, a clean shirt and the right smile you can score anyone...within reason!

Bottle_of_Smoke

girls also always seem to be a lot more torn up over guys than vice versa

tman

Bottle_of_Smoke wrote:

girls also always seem to be a lot more torn up over guys than vice versa

guys just tend to bottle emotional **** up more than girls

Third_Echelon

Banjo013 wrote:

Personally I think it depends on where you go alot of the time.

Average Joe like me walks into one if the "trendy" bars (*yuck**spit*) in town - Cafe en Seine for example - there isn't a chicken's chance in China I'd score.

...and the moral of the story is... dont go to cafe en seine..

Banjo013 wrote:

There's a certain type in this kinda place looking for a specific thing. Basically, the girls are all the long blonde haired size 10 types, looking for a rich guy to keep her for life. The guys are the tan leather coat and Rolex wearing type who are looking for a trophey to keep. So someone like me who might be looking for a nice girl who's happy to earn her own money and have her own independence is def in the wrong house.

definitely...

go somewhere where you think you'll like the people better...

radiospan

Banjo013 wrote:

Was in California last year. Walk up ANY girl of ANY appearance in a bar over there and she won't even bother saying hello until you've answered the standard 3 questions :-

1. What do you do for a living ?
2. Where do you live and how big is your house ?
3. What kind of car do you drive ?

:eek: Are you serious?

Surely there are some genuinely nice girls?

DublinWriter

Third_Echelon wrote:

...and the moral of the story is... dont go to cafe en seine..

Espeically not on your hooded tracksuit (hood up), a packet of JP Blue in your pocket and the opening line of "jaaaysus, doose bouncers wud wreck yer bleedin' buzz, wot's the craic? Mickey-money day or WHA?"