This Girl ..

Skank

Hi all , i posted a problem up a while ago and i delt with , its all been resolved and sorted and everything is cushty . I carried on regardless trying to find a nice girl ..

Then on Saturday nite i saw this girl who i no and well she,s really stunning ,
i meen :eek: i could actualy feel my heart start raceing which dont happen often to me , now i cant honestly say its a spark thing or anything , but when were talkin there is always eye contact between us and i kinda melt when i do ie i put on a cool front .

I really would like to ask er out for a drink but there are some problem's .

1 not so long ago my very drunkin friend asked her what she thaught of me and she said i like him as a friend but we were all really drunk , so i dunno what to do ,should i leave it ? or should i forget about it ? and go for it ?

So if any one can tell me what to do or guide me in the rite way it would be great thanks ..

pickarooney

Yes/No Delete as appropriate.

What are you asking, really?

Zombienosh

Ask her out for a casual drink! the worst she can do is say no, if she says yeah - see how it goes.

Skank

should i sk her out for a drink een tho she has said that she only likes me as a friend ? and she was drunk to as we all were ....

qotsaman

if a female mates bday is coming up ask this girl to help ya pick a present cause guys are crap at these things, if she says yeah, u got:
1)time alone to talk crap
2)figure out things about each other (music etc)
3)thank her for helping u out by sitting down for coffee
plus...as we well know women cant shop without taking a moment to shop themselves which basically means you've just spent the whole day together cause they never stop looking around!

Evil Phil

Ask her out, all she can do is say no. It seems that while you two know each other your not close friends so its not like you're going to loose a best mate or something

Skank

phill dude that make sence dude but does it not seem to be a a bit crazy like me askin her out for a drink eben tho she has said that she only likes me as a friend even tho she dont no me that well ?

Beruthiel

Skank wrote:

phill dude that make sence dude but does it not seem to be a a bit crazy like me askin her out for a drink eben tho she has said that she only likes me as a friend even tho she dont no me that well ?

skank
any chance of you using full stops and quiting with the text speak, it is exceedingly difficult to understand what you are trying to say.

if she just wants to be friends, then she just wants to be friends....

Skank

Beruthiel

apolidgess i did actuly re cheack my post to make shore everything was spelled rite sorry.

The thing is if she wanted to remain friends she would of said it to me shes very confident and i know she would of aproached me about it , shes like that .

Evil Phil

Well maybe if you're confident enought to approach her she'll change her mind.

Skank

Evil Phil wrote:

Well maybe if you're confident enought to approach her she'll change her mind.

thats a very interesting point dude .But shore we only live once like...

as in she may change her mind about me ? or actualy say something to me ?

MojoMaker

If you speak as badly as you write you're not going to impress her much, as Shania would say. Work on that and work on sprucing up your general image & demeanour and you might have a better chance with this girl, and others. Good communication greases the wheels of relationships the world over, familial, professional, and romantic. If you take this seriously you should start seeing good results in the short term which will give you confidence to tackle just these types of situations when next you face them.

WhiteWashMan

since none of us know you and none of know her, then any advice you get will be purely based on our own personalities and experiences.

id say just grow a set, and ask the girl out.

if you keep making up excuses and reasons not to do it, then jesus, admit to yourself that youa re too scared, and dont ask her out.

i mean, what more can we give advice on?

and again, learn to use the enter key. paragraphs are your friend.

Sherlock

Skank wrote:

Beruthiel

apolidgess i did actuly re cheack my post to make shore everything was spelled rite sorry.

T.

Were you out when they covered spelling in school?.
Sorry B but I couldn't resist.

Gordon

Crap jokes are a bannable offence Sheerluck.

Also I think Skank is dyslexic, but lets not get into detail about dyslexia on this thread.

Duckjob

Just go for it man. Even if she says no, the closure is preferable to living with the what-ifs of not knowing.

Pharcyde

A different opinion fro a different perspective.

Why not take your time in getting to know her, if she's as great as you say she is then it'll be worth the wait. When your out in a group gradually spend more time talking to her, ask her friends about her and what she's into - incorporate this into your conversations with her. If she likes you as a friend then your half way there! If you ask her out too soon you might blow it and never know "what if....?"

The good things in life come to those who wait!

BTW - ease up on the criticisms, as was pointed out we don't know Skank!