What is she playing at

LegacyUser

Some times I really dont understand girls, even being a girl myself-I dont get this one.

Apparently a girl whom I was friends with for most of my life, was hassling a friend of mine a few nights ago, basically looking for salacious gossip about me - really really personal questions. My friend told her nothing - thought she was an idiot.

I really dont understand why she'd do this. I felt like ringing her and fu*king her out of it. But that would probably get me no where and Id look like the bitch. I havent spoken to her in about a year-no reason really, she wasnt too forward about keeping contact so I kind of didnt make an effort either.

But to hear she is doing this amazed me! Do ye think I should contact her and say something or let it slide?

this girl was a really really good friend of mine. Why would she do this?

Nasty_Girl

if ya haven't spoken to her in about a year why'd ya give a f*ck?
She's prob p*ssed at ya over something that happened years ago either that she wants misses you but is afraid to go barging back into your life so quizzed your mate instead but handled it badly.

If you actually want her as a friend give her a shout

If you don't, ignore her.

qotsaman

i can think of a few of things
1)you did something bad ages ago and only finding out now
2)was drunk and stuck for conversation
.....or on the optimistic side of things 3)....
she misses you, realises its ben ages and needs an excuse to get in touch so she thinks by finding some dirt on you she can ring up and do the old "a little birdy to me..." in a friendly way. That way she can ring you up for a chat without it looking like she misses you.

yes a long shot but some people do think like that.

bug

was this like "whats the gossip about such and such"?

or more like "whats the evil gossip about that stupid beatch"?

either way unless you heard exactly how she put it yourself, I wouldnt be bothered with it cos, said mate who told you could be just making it sound worse than it was because she doesnt much like the young one either...

/me takes breath.

so ... that could be it, and why do you care if its someone you let go of a year ago?

Kevin_rc_ie

all i can say is girls will be girls.

ring her up, start friendly, if she doesn't inadvertently answer your question, give her hell.

WhiteWashMan

as bug said, unless you were there, it could just have been an old friend just asking questions in that 'whats the scamp up to these days, i havent talked to her in years' sort of way.

as opposed to 'tell me dirt on that b1tch ot i will torture you.

which do you think it was?

LegacyUser

Thanks for the replies.

it was definately the "evil gossip" option. If it was friendly banter, I wouldnt mind at all.

My friend is a male. He hardly knows her-couldnt even remember her name. He was a bit stunned what she was asking.

she didnt once ask for me etc...you know the way it is..."hows such and such doing etc etc" not once...

I do not and never will miss her as a friend. She was not a very good "friend" to me. but I always gave her the benefit of the doubt. When I stopped being friends with her, I was thinking "how could you ever have called her a friend?" I guess it was because I had known her such a long time-most of my life.

but I think she has well over stepped her mark this time.

See to me, I dont know if ignoring her, as ive always done, will satisfy my eager need to give her basically a tongue lashing.

then again, she always was a gossip and if I did this she'd probably love it.

Nasty_Girl

seriously kid just ignore her she justs wants the attention of you roaring at her so she can be all "oh poor me <insert your name here> is such a bitch why did she do that to me blah blah simper simper".
You're way better off out of it.

PS: Voodoo dolls and drawing little pictures of people you hate on fire are exellent ways of venting anger on someone who hasn't the b*lls to get at you in person.

*Page*

this happened one night i was out. this friend(emmy) of mine started asking questions about me and my best mate(pogo) to my other friend (eka).
eka doesnt know emmy but also didn't know pogo. eka unable to answer the questions for emmy came and told me. me and emmy were close at this point but pogo and emmy had fallen out years ago over a guy.

it turned out that emmy often went around asking questions about pogo to feed back to pogos x the one emmy and pogo fell out over.
the x. would ring up pogo saying oh i heard this and that about you from a and b but leaving out the fact that he got it all from emmy.


"true story though names have been changed"

Gordon

*Page* you have some strangely named friends.

Trojan

Please keep it on topic Gordon.

T.

Slutmonkey57b

Girls are wierdos.

Coney Island

Dontunderstand wrote:

Some times I really dont understand girls, even being a girl myself-I dont get this one.

Apparently a girl whom I was friends with for most of my life, was hassling a friend of mine a few nights ago, basically looking for salacious gossip about me - really really personal questions. My friend told her nothing - thought she was an idiot.

I really dont understand why she'd do this. I felt like ringing her and fu*king her out of it. But that would probably get me no where and Id look like the bitch. I havent spoken to her in about a year-no reason really, she wasnt too forward about keeping contact so I kind of didnt make an effort either.

But to hear she is doing this amazed me! Do ye think I should contact her and say something or let it slide?

this girl was a really really good friend of mine. Why would she do this?

Just ignore her, you don't seem to be good friends anyway...not sure why you are making a big deal out of it.