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Skank

hi this is sorta a question stroke thing that has been happening recently past 3 weeks basically 5 yrs ago i meat this girl and we got on really well now shes he nicest girl in the world i think ad she really brainy etc and very attractive well i think so any we lived togeather as friends and she fecked of to england i went to my collage course and she went to hers , and past five yrs weve been keeping in touch we havent seen each other ,or anything due to wrong things happening etc ya no how it is , any way 3 weeks ago i had a dream about her and she was sick in my dream so when i woke up i texted her to see how she was and low and behold she was sick so i was a bit freeked out but carried on ya no sent her a get well card and a little parcil full of nice stuff cause she was sick and well ive always hada soft sot for her now ive been hinkin more and more about her recently and thre are othere girls i lke but yet i miss her so much then i ever realised and im feeling a bit confused to whats wrong with me and why im missin her so much my life is good order i havent got gf i would like one but i dont mind not haveing one as collage takes up my time as well , but it would be nice . but shore its not important , im thinkin about her a lot and weve been texeing each other so much more since that happend and the things she say to me make melt inside , im dislexi and collage is tuff but she say to me she has faith in me and she beleaves in me as do i in her as shes so clever she has a 2,2 in her colage course , ikinda have feelings for her i think , is it posible that to people who havent ssen each other for five yrs could have un noticed feelings for each other or is it me being silly ?
ps sorry i kinda got rapped up in that , ps sorry for spelling gramer i got wrong its not my fault ...

koneko

I couldn't finish reading it after a couple of lines. Use paragraphs and our friend Mr Period.
Really, it gave me a headache.

tman

Skank wrote:

im dislexi and collage is tuff

tut tut koneko

Rossonero

Skank wrote:

is it posible that to people who havent ssen each other for five yrs could have un noticed feelings for each other or is it me being silly ?

If you can't answer that question for yourself, I or nobody can, because it is you who house these feelings.

LegacyUser

koneko, if you have read the rest of the post, you would have read that he is dyslexic.

Skank: Course it is possible that you could have feelings for this girl. It sounds to me that you have very strong feelings for her.
I was in a position like you once(although it wasnt 5 years since id seen her) and I took the plunge and I am been with my girlfriend now for 1 year and ive never been happier.

I say go for it

Sherifu

Sure they could.
Go for it me thinks.

skywalker

koneko wrote:

I couldn't finish reading it after a couple of lines. Use paragraphs and our friend Mr Period.
Really, it gave me a headache.

Its big and clever to slag dyslexic people over their grammer isnt it?


to orig poster. yeah I wouldnt imagine its very common but you certainly see people getting back together after having broken up for years. Didnt liz taylor marry the same guy 2 or 3 times?

MojoMaker

I don't believe koneko made any reference to the OP's grammar or spelling. Breaking the text into paragraphs and using basic punctuation is not affected in any way by dyslexia, or didn't you realise?

In any case for someone claiming dyslexia he sure doesn't make the normal mistakes, and the ones he does are not consistent. I'll let someone else say troll.

To the OP, if it is genuine, yes it's perfectly possibly to have unnoticed feelings for someone even after 5 years. Absolutely one hundred percent possible. Feelings never really die away they retreat and they can often be brought back into sharp focus (even if only for a while) by immediate events, such as having a dream about someone, resuming contact with them after so long etc.

Sleepy

I've seen it happen tbh. If she's a good friend I'm sure she won't be offended if you tell her what you posted above.

Zulu

skywalker wrote:

Its big and clever to slag dyslexic people over their grammer isnt it?

I'm dyslexic - it's no excuse, and, frankly I get p1ssed off when people use it to cover for laziness. Spell checker exists for a reason. Full stops are learnt in primary school; people with dyslexia know how to use them. I've never heard of dyslexia affecting punctuation. Paragraphs are just a courtesy at this stage.

To the original poster: I've often go out with people who've been friends for years before. I was friends with a girl for 1 year, best friends with her for 1 year, and ended up going out with her for 3/4 years after that. It was the most fulfilling relationship I've ever experienced to date. Go for it man.

Skank

hi sorry i havent got back to you on this topic , ive been away ..

as for Zulu an Mojo maker , u dudes gave a very helpfull answers is it really that critiacl to ya obvously for that i apolidgise but in future ya gotta chill out a little like think about the fact that i was kinda talkin about stuff thats very personal and well wasnt really thinkin about how it looked in that way which i oplidgise , i simply mentioned the dislexia so people new my spelling is crap which it is,
im not makeing excuses just so people dont jump down my throat for crap speling , which many a poerson has done on websites and forums .......

Rossonero
Thats a good question i think i am but my friends who i have told are looking at me weirdly ! as in are you well and for get about her .....


I told her , "she said dont worry its cool "which to be honest it doesnt suprise me rite now i dont no what to do , were talkin but its been a while since she even texted me dunno what to do , but i dont think i should keep my hopes up well its essy sayin that , but shore im going to be paitent and not bring it up again and just see what happens , but there are other ladys out there .....

The_B_Man

Skank wrote:

I told her

A first for the Personal Issues board, me thinks!

Skank wrote:

"she said dont worry its cool".....

Sounds good!

Skank wrote:

.....but its been a while since she even texted

Sounds bad!

Have u noticed that she doesnt reply to ur texts more than usual? if so she might be feeling a bit put off by ur admission.
has she even replied to u at all?

Skank wrote:

...i dont think i should keep my hopes up well its essy sayin that , but shore im going to be paitent and not bring it up again and just see what happens , but there are other ladys out there .....

Thats the spirit.

Skank

Well dude life is for living ya dont ask ya dont get ...

as for Qoute thats bad ...

i dont understand u man can ya make it a bit simpler plz ?

po0k

Zulu wrote:

I'm dyslexic - it's no excuse, and, frankly I get p1ssed off when people use it to cover for laziness. Spell checker exists for a reason. Full stops are learnt in primary school; people with dyslexia know how to use them. I've never heard of dyslexia affecting punctuation. Paragraphs are just a courtesy at this stage.

Was just about to make a similar post.

From WordNet (r) 2.0 [wn]:

dyslexia
n : impaired ability to learn to read

It has little if anything to do with using punctuation when writing.

po0k

On-Topic:

Don't over-think the situation dude, things may be wierd, they may not.
Roll with it and have no regrets.

Skank

Sky pak dude i dont no what to drink but im takein a girl out who i meet on a bus for a drink , it was weird she asked could she sit beside me then proceeded to talk to me so at the end of it i said wanna go out for a do sometime and she said yeah quicker then a 100 yer old being offered , refreashers and coke ,which i forgot to mention ,earler but shore il give it a go see how we get on ....

so im not to worried about it ...

And Look ive said im sorry it wont happen again , regarding the OT ,,,

logic1

skywalker wrote:

Its big and clever to slag dyslexic people over their grammer

Haha the irony.

Skank wrote:

Sky pak dude i dont no what to drink

Have a heino.

.logic.

koneko

I didn't attack anyone spelling, so get off your high horses everyone.

Paragraphs have nothing to do with being dyslexic. Everyone can do it. It makes what you're trying to say easier to read. When you're looking for advice, you want people to read your post. I'd say half the people that read that just gave up instead. Notice how this thread has very few replies? Usually there'd be about 2 or 3 pages of people saying "just go for it!" or "talk to her" or whatever.

I suggest everyone that attacked me actually reads my post and then actually reads the original post. There's far too many people here just WAITING for a reason to attack someone else. Try finding something to genuinely complain, hmm?

HarryD

Nice punctuation OP

WhiteWashMan

dyslexia is not an excuse for being stupid. nor is it an excuse not to put in any effort.im sure no one gives a monkeys about mistakes in spelling, and im far from a perfect spelling, but god, at least make an effort. any of the people who have been here for a long time who have a problem with dyslexia make an effort, and actually have better grammar than the rest of us.

with regards the OP, youre living inthe past. you dont really know this girl anymore, and it sounds like shes not interested.
youve already moved on it would seem to this girl on the bus. my advice to you would be that you should drink stella.

WhiteWashMan

WhiteWashMan wrote:

and im far from a perfect spelling

oh, the irony!

Skank

WhiteWashMan wrote:

dyslexia is not an excuse for being stupid. nor is it an excuse not to put in any effort.im sure no one gives a monkeys about mistakes in spelling, and im far from a perfect spelling, but god, at least make an effort. any of the people who have been here for a long time who have a problem with dyslexia make an effort, and actually have better grammar than the rest of us..

really well maybe htey hould count them selves lucky cause mine is **** .cant help it way i am ..... weather you wanna sound, like every school teacher i ever had do so cause il do exactly the same as every other teacher that anoyed me with ,there bull **** well thats what they tach ya bull **** how about they actuly prepare you for the real world in sted of the mathametical equichon to newtons thery the only peace of info i ever learned in school ,were wait there are none , but better yet i earn more money then my teachers and work from home most of the time funny that .....

WhiteWashMan wrote:

with regards the OP, youre living inthe past. you dont really know this girl anymore, and it sounds like shes not interested.
youve already moved on it would seem to this girl on the bus. my advice to you would be that you should drink stella.

actuly i have moved on but if yove ever had feelings for a girl that you didnt realise you had u might understand what im talkin about , other it sounds like i dont need you to tell me that im intelegent enough to figure that out for my self i actuly have people skills .and as for noing when you no some body people do change we all change but if you no somebody well then u learn to except that as i have but we still have talked obovusly and more then once a month simply because i would count her as my best female fiend , as for drinkin stella i rather my henikan .. now please weve gottin over the hole dislexia thing any more problems pm me thanks...

Beruthiel

lets stick to the topic at hand people, take yer discussion on spelling and grammar elsewhere
B

WhiteWashMan

Skank wrote:

really well maybe htey hould count them selves lucky cause mine is **** .cant help it way i am ..... weather you wanna sound, like every school teacher i ever had do so cause il do exactly the same as every other teacher that anoyed me with ,there bull **** well thats what they tach ya bull **** how about they actuly prepare you for the real world in sted of the mathametical equichon to newtons thery the only peace of info i ever learned in school ,were wait there are none , but better yet i earn more money then my teachers and work from home most of the time funny that .....

well good for you. i hope it works out for you. by the way, for someone with dyslexia, youre not mixing up many of your letters. i wasnt aware that word exchanges and phonetic spelling were side effects. see, even i can still learn a thing or two

Skank wrote:

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actuly i have moved on but if yove ever had feelings for a girl that you didnt realise you had u might understand what im talkin about , other it sounds like i dont need you to tell me that im intelegent enough to figure that out for my self i actuly have people skills .and as for noing when you no some body people do change we all change but if you no somebody well then u learn to except that as i have but we still have talked obovusly and more then once a month simply because i would count her as my best female fiend , as for drinkin stella i rather my henikan .. now please weve gottin over the hole dislexia thing any more problems pm me thanks...

hey, you asked for advice on a public bullitan board dude. i gave you my opinion. if you dont like it, then ignore it.

HarryD

Skank wrote:

really well maybe htey hould count them selves lucky cause mine is **** .cant help it way i am ..... weather you wanna sound, like every school teacher i ever had do so cause il do exactly the same as every other teacher that anoyed me with ,there bull **** well thats what they tach ya bull **** how about they actuly prepare you for the real world in sted of the mathametical equichon to newtons thery the only peace of info i ever learned in school ,were wait there are none , but better yet i earn more money then my teachers and work from home most of the time funny that .....

My apologies Skank. I didn't read the entire post.

Skank

HarryD wrote:

My apologies Skank. I didn't read the entire post.

no bother man tis cool

The_B_Man

hey i was sayin its bad coz when u said she hasnt texted u in a while, i fugured she might be ignoring you until u get the hint!
were u textin her and she just wasnt textin back at all? if so, then its bad. especially if she was textin u a good few times before u told her.

Skank

hey bman

yeah i se what you meen maybe its not the time or something i said it i dont regret it cause i spoke from the heart and well a least i can as for other women there evry were ya just gotta make them smile and well its all good dude . meet abnother girl i havent seen in long time tonite she gave me her number ...

so im takein it like this i can wollow in self pity about the fact that shes a bit shocked and stuff and shes not talkin to me let her get over it and well get on with my life and wonder mite something in the future happen .....:)