man trouble!!

dinoflagellates

The problem is that i met out this week and he is too good to be true. Im afraid this isnt going to sound to good but usually all my relatioships are rather short term and we dont really open up. But this guy seemed totally honest when i met him. There was none of the usual rubbish.We chatted and one thing led to another and we kissed. But he seems just too good to be true and he told my friends he liked me and he didnt leave to the usual week before texting me. The thing is this guy doesnt know me we only met that night and im not a believer in this love at first sight stuff. I dont know what to do. I need a guys opinon is this fella taking me for a fool or what? My friends have taken againist him cause they say he really likes me, and was asking them about but the big thing is he really doesnt know me and i dont want to hurt him by leading him on.

Zombrex

What exactly is the problem?

He likes you but you don't like him?

If that is the case it is better to be totally honest (and when I say totally I mean brutally) and not lead him on. If you don't like him that way then you don't like him that way.

simu

From your post, I take it that you're afraid you're getting carried away and that you'll end up being disappointed. My advice: relax, go out with him again, enjoy his company and don't worry too much about the future.

D

From the sounds of things you have only met once and texted. Don't be afraid that you are leading him on. I'm sure that he doesn't expect a relationship out of one night, a kiss and a few texts. Go for it, be honest and if you are still going out after a while tell him exactly how you feel. The best thing for a relationship is to know how the other person feels and what they want. Go out enjoy yourself, and don't worry you sound very nice, past relationships do not dictate how this relationship will turn out.

Doodee

Meh, he may just be inexperienced and is trying to cover it up
He could be a pretender
Maybe h's a vampire.

Who knows, just enjoy it while its happening, you can always change the course of events.

gubby

What is the big deal.. are you a serial killer or what.. of course he doesnt know you.. but maybe he wants to get to know you.. what would be so terrible about that. if you are not sure.. just take things nice and slowly. I dont understand why you said "my friends have taken against him because they say he really likes me" ???? what kind of friends do you have?
For gods sake .. maybe its your friends you should be dumping
give the guy a chance.

Victor

dinoflagellates wrote:

But he seems just too good to be true and he told my friends he liked me

He "likes" you, he doesn't want to marry you (yet, anyway).

You pay your money and take your chances. Give it a spin.

pickarooney

Most confusing post ever. What on earth is the issue here?

stratos

The issue is the tissue! Will she be left crying? Ok this ansewer is from a guy, girls need balance. I am will always be a gentleman. Scares the hell out of most of you gurls. I listen, I hold doors open , i watch your drink, make sure you don' leave your handbag behind. I have bee'n on dates where I know my behaviour is too good for the girl. Jeez she feels embarressed. I make my excuses and leave. The problem is you translate my good manners as weakness. Lmao the true gurls sees me.

Zombrex

stratos wrote:

The issue is the tissue! Will she be left crying? Ok this ansewer is from a guy, girls need balance. I am will always be a gentleman. Scares the hell out of most of you gurls. I listen, I hold doors open , i watch your drink, make sure you don' leave your handbag behind. I have bee'n on dates where I know my behaviour is too good for the girl. Jeez she feels embarressed. I make my excuses and leave. The problem is you translate my good manners as weakness. Lmao the true gurls sees me.

well that made everything crystal clear :rolleyes:

Beruthiel

you have a problem because the guy seems to be nice?!

believe it or not, there are nice men out there, perhaps you've actually met one!? I've met loads... some of them even post on boards!

I cannot believe you've started a thread over this..

WhiteWashMan

dinoflagellates wrote:

The problem is that i met out this week and he is too good to be true. Im afraid this isnt going to sound to good but usually all my relatioships are rather short term and we dont really open up. But this guy seemed totally honest when i met him. There was none of the usual rubbish.We chatted and one thing led to another and we kissed. But he seems just too good to be true and he told my friends he liked me and he didnt leave to the usual week before texting me. The thing is this guy doesnt know me we only met that night and im not a believer in this love at first sight stuff. I dont know what to do. I need a guys opinon is this fella taking me for a fool or what? My friends have taken againist him cause they say he really likes me, and was asking them about but the big thing is he really doesnt know me and i dont want to hurt him by leading him on.

there are two issues here.

the first is very basic.
it involves the use of the enter button on your keyboard, and it allows you to use paragraphs. these make reading a lot easier. it would also help if you english, instead of whatever language this is. if you want to write something, goddam it, make it bloody legible for gawd sake.

the other issue is this.
you have given us very little information.
thers a bloke.
you kissed him.
he told your friends he likes you
he texted you within a week.

and you want to know what he is like?
leading him on?

jesus, are you for real?
can you not make up your own mind?
can you not find out what he is like yourself, or would you like someone here to go on a couple of dates and find out all about him for you?
perhaps some of our lady friends here can have sex with him and tell you what he is like in the sack, just so you know?

i mean seriously, what do you want us to say?

hes great. go for it. youre not leading him on. you will marry him and your life will be roses.

is that ok?

arbeitsscheuer

moderators, lock this thread - It's pointless, and there seems to be no real issue.

And yes, I am aware of the irony of posting on this thread in order to shut it down, so don't bother pointing that out. :rolleyes: