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Don't know what to do...

  • 17-02-2005 3:59pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    So here's the story, I was with my G/F about 3 months and then she left to go travelling the world. We got really close in the 3 months before she left. We always had quite broad minds about sex etc. The thing is... we both said we'd probably sleep with other people while we were seperated. I know she has, and I had the opportunity, but I didn't want to at all. This other girl was cute and everythin but it didn't feel right. So my problem is that my G/F applied for a job abroad and should get it. If she gets it she'll be starting in about 6-8 weeks.
    What do I do?
    Do I sit back and enjoy the time together and then when she leaves get on with my life? I think that would screw me up even more.
    Break up with her if she gets the job? At least she's still around and it's more of a full stop.
    Or even crazier, is this enough for me to go with her. I really think she's great and I really don't want to lose her... I'm 23 and she's 19 btw.


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  • #2
    ARGINITE
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,719 ✭✭✭ARGINITE


    option 2
    Break up with her if she gets the job? At least she's still around and it's more of a full stop.
    . but it doesnt matter what anybody says here you probally have your mind made up already and just dont know it!


  • #3
    Beruthiel
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,361 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    well your chosen nick gives it away

    No Philias Fogg

    you won't be moving with her, and tbh, it's probably best you don't
    if she's only 19 then she has no intention of settling down I would imagine...
    so
    that leaves you with the other two options
    as you have remarked staying with her till she leaves is just too much of a head fuk, then what have you left?


  • #4
    egan007
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,934 ✭✭✭egan007


    I stayed with a girl when she went away - we were going out about 3 months like you. She had plans to travel b4 meeting me. So we decided to stay together - but no other partners.
    She came back from Oz after 3 months, We are still together 4 years later.

    If she want's to be with other people then maybe she is not as committed as you. The fact that she is looking for a job also rings alarm bells about her commitment. At 19 she want's to experience new people new places - it seems like ye want two different things.

    You are 23 my friend the best advice i can give you is to enjoy the many other beautiful women out there :) Like busses - there is always another around the corner.


  • #5
    pickarooney
    Moderators, Arts Moderators Posts: 35,919 Mod ✭✭✭✭pickarooney


    Has she been travelling and is back already or has she not gone yet?


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