Down In The Dumps

The Fitz

Last friday i went to wesley disco in donnybrook, i got to know this girl, emma who lives in kimmage, we really hit it off and we exchanged phone numbers at the end of the night. The next day she texted me and we got talking for ages and ages, she was seeming really into me for sges until out of absolutely nowhere at all she gets her mate to text me saying she only wants to be mates and that she couldn't bring herself to like me which means she was just leading me on. I couldn't believe how wrong I was about her, I've been down in the dumps all day

MickFarr

Sad to here that. Does sound a bit strange that she did leed you on. Better luck this Saturday!

seamus

Yeah, that sucks. That's love. That's life. Get used to it. You're only young, it's all up and down from here

Are you sure it was her mate? Maybe one of your own mates texted you from an unknown number to throw you off and have you wondering. I had a mate do that to me before

My only advice I can give is to not wear your heart on your sleeve. It'll only get walked on.

Bottle_of_Smoke

"emma from kimmage" are you getting revenge by putting her name out? (i like your style )

bad luck but how much can you like a tart from the wez? you'll be happy again soon enough

The Fitz

nope i texted her straight away and she confirmed it, sickened she couldn't tell me herself apart from other things

AlisonB

fitzer666 wrote:

nope i texted her straight away and she confirmed it, sickened she couldn't tell me herself apart from other things

could you not have called her, and vice versa? everyone seems to do everything over text these days - painfully annoying!

The Fitz

yea well its not the point realy, the thing that angers me is that she was talkin to me all lovey dubbey for ages and then KABOOM, she just wants to be friends, it just seems strange. Twas the happiest ive been for ages and now its just back to normal

Bottle_of_Smoke

ask her why she went off ya, nothing to lose

Shrimp

Dont be too suprised, you got shot down. So what.. GREAT SIGNATURE MICK

$lash

Dude, If that's what shes like your better off without her...

The Fitz

Its just she seemed so different and I cant help but think that somethin's influenced her decision

MickFarr

Shrimp wrote:

GREAT SIGNATURE MICK

Cheers! I like her best when she's bad thats when she's really good.

The Fitz

all her mates keep txtin me askin me am i alrite when then shud no im not

seamus

She probably has a boyfriend and realised it'd be cruel to hold you on the line that long. Why would you be upset? You met her once, and texted her for a few hours.

LegacyUser

Hey Listen Boss - sounds like a really ´Bunny Boiler´ to me. Count yerself lucky not to have anything to do with her !

The Fitz

Ive sort of a problem, i get attached to girls too easily, and if it doesnt work out wee, the title of this thread says it all

LegacyUser

god forbid u should ever have a real problem

$lash

Everyone gets knocks ... unfortunatly it's life ... Best thing to do is try not to worry about it .. If it's meant to be it's meant to be if not then learn from your experience ...

Victor

It was easy come, easy go. If her mates are still texting you, say something as neutral as "Yeah she's nice, but it's not like we were going out properly or any."

You can still be her friend. If you want.

nads156 wrote:

god forbid u should ever have a real problem

Thats a little unfair. fitzer666's of a tender age still.

Shrimp

I think the reason you get attached to girls to easily is because you dont get them very regularly going by your other posts.. learn to forget.. sheesh

StupidLikeAFox

fitzer666 wrote:

Ive sort of a problem, i get attached to girls too easily, and if it doesnt work out wee, the title of this thread says it all

yeah sort that out mate, you know now, once bitten twice shy eh? You can learn from this and now you'll know in future. You'll thank this girl, and laugh at her childish ways in years. Honest




yes i am 17, but i know what im talkin about and im an old man at heart

[Jackass]

Don't worry about it mate
Just try to remember not to fall for girls to hard to soon from now on, keep it in perspective
You'reyoung, this will happen alot, it's how you learn to deal with it...
And most of all, rememberhow this feels, next time the shoe could be on the other foot, you could be dumping the girl, so make sure you're nice about it!!
Good luck man

Sleepy

Life Lesson No. 392: Women are fickle creatures.

gubby

Maybe you should learn to spell.. do u talk in tex speak too. ooops sorry did i really type that. I agree with whoever said to be cool about it. My guess is that she does like you but afraid that things are moving too fast!! maybe you are coming on too strong. She is getting her friends to text you to see if you are ok.. that means that she feels bad and is worried/sorry about hurting you. take it slowly... if you meet her be friendly (after all,, her words) but be sure to be the first to end conversation and walk away.

orangerooster

Dont worry about it too much man, your young and if she was willing to lead you on like that she's not worth any more of you're time. Sort out going mad over every girl you see as well-I used to be of that nature and its not the best way to be.

impr0v

There are plenty more mothers with beautiful daughters.

*adele*

shes such a dumb bítch!thats so mean

Shrimp

That does not make her dumb.. If anything you are dumb, you know, with the whole typing things going on.

Gordon

Shrimp, do not drag this thread, or any other on Personal Issues, off topic.

*adele*

wtf?
anyway any girl who'd do that isnt worth it..

The Fitz

gubby wrote:

Maybe you should learn to spell.. do u talk in tex speak too. ooops sorry did i really type that. I agree with whoever said to be cool about it. My guess is that she does like you but afraid that things are moving too fast!! maybe you are coming on too strong. She is getting her friends to text you to see if you are ok.. that means that she feels bad and is worried/sorry about hurting you. take it slowly... if you meet her be friendly (after all,, her words) but be sure to be the first to end conversation and walk away.

she apparently hates me and proir to monday she was comin on as strong to me as i was to her

declan_lgs

seamus wrote:

Yeah, that sucks. That's love. That's life. Get used to it. You're only young, it's all up and down from here

better off getting over this bitch, mightn't be too easy, but she's not worth it.

The Fitz

Cheers for the advice, its easier said than done though, cant get the whole situation ou of me aul ceann

*adele*

aw itll take a while but when it goes itll seem really stupid how much it bothered u

Victor

Well, ye'll have to pull a different burd next Friday.