Make a move, or wait for a spark?

Rossonero

I've become extremely good friends with girl X. We have loads and loads in common, and are very close.
We meet up every month or so because we're in college in different places and are from different places anyway.
She's 7+yrs older.
First time we met up we had a great time and I snogged her, as she was coming on, but then she said she couldn't be my gf.
Well anyway we've met up a few times since, and got closer and closer. We walk hand in hand and hold eachother at times, but I haven't made another move.
Next time we meet should I make a move? Or should I wait?
Would she get bored if I don't make a move?

Can anyone help, please?

ven0m

"Nothing ventured nothing gained"

"Faint hearts never won fair ladies"

"He who dares wins"

"Better to have loved & lost than never loved at all"


Take your pick....


::: ven0mous :::

koneko

Do it.

meepmeep

Yeah......do it

Zulu

Lob the gob.
What can she say, only no.

Wait and let it happen naturally. Sounds like you're not going to need to force the issue.

Zombrex

Don't just make a move. If she kisses you back it doesn't mean she wants to go out with you (after all she kissed you before).

Just talk to her about it ... the fact that you have already kissed means you don't have the whole "is she actually attracted to me" thing to worry about .. you know she is attracted to you, she might still say she doesn't want a relationship but then that isn't the end of the world

pickarooney

She said she couldn't be your girlfriend for what reason? And has that changed in any way?

tinkerbell

Herr Capitan wrote:

We walk hand in hand and hold eachother at times, but I haven't made another move.

Sounds to me like she's interested if ye are walking hand-in-hand.

BolBill

Maybe she thinks youre a renter?

meditraitor

BolBill wrote:

Maybe she thinks youre a renter?

Know this isnt the humour board, but thats the funniest thing ive read all day,, LOL

Beruthiel

keep it on topic ladies
B

BolBill

meditraitor wrote:

Know this isnt the humour board, but thats the funniest thing ive read all day,, LOL

Yeah was only having a laugh

[Jackass]

Just because she dosn't want to be your G/F, dosen't meen she dosen't want to do stuff with you man!!!
She holds your hand and cuddles with you!!!
What are ya waitin for.... (nike plug) just do it!!

silly

BolBill wrote:

Maybe she thinks youre a renter?

renter?

gsand

nike

just do it

Rossonero

pickarooney wrote:

She said she couldn't be your girlfriend for what reason? And has that changed in any way?

She said she couldn't because she was having problems with guys (she told me reasons, but i'm not going to post them here) and that maybe we could in a year or two.
But it was the first time we met when she said that. We've got closer since, so I wouldn't think it's an obstacle.