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Is this girl worth my time

  • 31-01-2005 12:18am
    #1
    lunacyfoundme
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 462 ✭✭


    any one got any advice for me on this one. met a great girl on new years eve and went out with her a couple of times after that. we got on great. talked for hours on end she was always texting me and i thought i met someone who really got me and wanted me.

    then all of a sudden we go from that to her telling me she wants to take things handy and textting me about once a week. she would reply a message like a day or two later. last message i got was her saying she couldnt meet me out that night cause she ahd a hangover but she really wanted to see me that week. havent heard from her since then thats like 5 days ago.

    I dont get it if shes not interested why doesnt she just say so and if she is interested why doesnt she seem to keen on meeting me again. ive jus tabout giving up on her but i dont want to because shes the best girl ive met in years. sweet. sexy and not a ****in knacker. which when you live in dundalk is a hard thing to find indeed.


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  • #2
    fade2black
    Closed Accounts Posts: 6,937 ✭✭✭fade2black


    Ask her. Simple as that. There's a chance that she's not interested and is hoping by giving you the cold shoulder that you'll jut get bored of her and she won't have to be honest with ya. However, it could be something else entirely so you better ask her and find out for sure.


  • #3
    The_Conductor
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 32,286 Mod ✭✭✭✭The_Conductor


    I had no idea things were so difficult in Dundalk.....

    Seriously though- you may have different ideas of where you are and where you want to go....... If the last text she sent you was 5 days ago- and you haven't replied- you certainly can't be accused of being too pushy. Maybe she did have a hangover? Its January- most people are stony broke after Christmas- there could be any of a large number of totally plausible reasons for things quietening down after the New Year.

    Its still January- if the girl is worth your time, and you feel she is, take the bull by the horns- give her a ring, find out what the story is. At very least you will be setting your own mind to rest.

    S.


  • #4
    KlodaX
    Closed Accounts Posts: 1,135 ✭✭✭KlodaX


    She doesn't sound very interested ... I'd suggest hounding her untill she realises you are lovely and dat she must spend lots of time with you ... if the hounding makes you appear to be a stalker she will stop piddling along and tell you straight out she isn't interested and you scare her.

    Either way you are out of limbo. :D

    *I'd like to add that Dundalk is full of lovely people.... they are just in hiding from the knackers*


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