Condom Q

LegacyUser

Ok. me + my boyfriend have successfully used condoms for contraception for nearly a yr now.
Last nite, my boyf noticed the condom was bunched @ the top, kinda creased up + a bit loose @the top, but it was still on + secure at the base + didnt burst or anything...
he didnt come, but even so should I be worried?

seamus

No. If there were no rips or tears in the condom, and particularly that he didn't come, I wouldn't let it worry you.

The condom can move around on the penis during sex, depending on loads of factors such as lubrication, fullness of erection, length of session. It's not uncommon for the condom to remain when the man withdraws.

What probably happened is that the condom bunched up slightly when he withdrew. No biggie.

Evilution

He should be worried, sounds like he's got a small dork and he's buying condoms that are too big for him...


Only joking there, I don't think you have anything to worry about.

TinCool

I'd be more concerned about the fact that he didn't climax. Aren't you satisfying his sexual needs ?

Evilution

TinCool wrote:

I'd be more concerned about the fact that he didn't climax. Aren't you satisfying his sexual needs ?

If he has sex as effectively as he puts on a condom, I think he has a problem

Zillah

You people are mean, especially you evilution.

AARRRGH

Wow what nasty responses.

You have nothing whatsoever to worry about.

Evilution

phlematic wrote:

You people are mean, especially you evilution.

No I'm not, I'm a prolific responder to those who need help.
Its the nature of my responses that are questionable however.

cajun_tiger

its all good babe, dont mind the nasty jokes they are just trying to winde you up

Beruthiel

Evilution wrote:

No I'm not, I'm a prolific responder to those who need help.
Its the nature of my responses that are questionable however.

well
I think I'll ban you for a week till you can come up with responses worth reading
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LegacyUser

Thanks everyone

+thanks Beruthiel.

He/she/it deserves to be banned.

Beruthiel

TinCool wrote:

I'd be more concerned about the fact that he didn't climax. Aren't you satisfying his sexual needs ?

I suggest you read the charter with regards to unhelpful remarks TinCool
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Kevin_rc_ie

oh yeah evil that was a bit over the top this is personal issues board

from the charter

Any advice given should be mature, contructive and non-abusive. Opinions are welcome. Ridicule and nastiness are not.

fair play on the banning.

this post has been edited because the poster is an idiot and confussed personal issues with its distant cousin after hours.woops.

Snaga

Kevin_rc_ie wrote:

first the forum is called after hours

Welcome to the Personal Issues board.

tinkerbell

Kevin_rc_ie wrote:

first the forum is called after hours not be extremely nice to every one all the time.

This board is for general discussion, for topics that do not fit onto another boards.

Actually, this forum is called Personal Issues, not After Hours, and not for General Discussion but for people's problems. Plus, from the charter, if you have a problem with someone being banned, you're supposed to PM the moderator (beruthiel), not post it here.

To the original poster -> it doesn't matter if the condom was bunched up at the top, so long as it wasn't torn or anything, did ye check it afterwards? Should be okay. If you want future peace of mind though, maybe you should consider going on the pill, that way you'd have pill + condoms = very very very very small chance of getting pregnant. That, or maybe call into a doctor and ask for his / her opinion - they always know best.

Kevin_rc_ie

okay okay apologies to all. i wrote a post explaining how the above threads didnt contravene the charter of AFTER HOURS. i just reread the charter of PERSONAL ISSUES and came across

** WARNING: STUPIDITY IS A BANNABLE OFFENCE ***

so I'll be leaving now. I've already said too much.

elvis2002

Ah there's no worries, maybe he didnt put it on right? Did he go soft and then hard again?

planck2

*** WARNING: STUPIDITY IS A BANNABLE OFFENCE ***

This is the best rule ever.