How do you know???

LegacyUser · 07-01-2005 9:24pm #1

Hey,
I've been seeing this girl for nearly 5 months now and I feel something really special between us. We've both agreed that we've both never felt this way with any other parners,we both really love it when we're with each other and she's told me that she's the happiest when she's with me.
I feel like I'm in love with this girl and I was wondering is it too soon in the realationship to feel so strongly???
Thanks in advance.
(no stupid replys please)

Nasty_Girl · 07-01-2005 10:46pm

I dont think there are any rules for when its acceptable to be "in love",
you can fall in love with someone after being with them for two weeks, five months
My fella told me he loved me about 2-3 months into our relationship but it took me a little while longer to say it back.
So basically, I would say no, its not too soon, just go with it and enjoy it!

LegacyUser · 07-01-2005 11:14pm

I know ther are no rules to being in love I was just wondering should I go and tell her that I love her. I'm nervous she'll freak out altough she said that she's never felt this way about a guy before. While talking today I told her I loved going out with her and she replied "I love you" and then she stammered and quickly said "I mean I love going out with you aswell".
Thanks

Mr.Nice Guy · 08-01-2005 12:48am

No one can tell you about how you feel.
Being in love is perhaps the only time in your life when only you can know how you feel.

WhiteWashMan · 08-01-2005 1:32am

what constitutes a stupid reply?

Dr. Loon · 08-01-2005 1:34am

WhiteWashMan wrote:

what constitutes a stupid reply?

Very clever. I like it.

Sangre · 08-01-2005 1:35am

Please consult the Love Inquiries Department of Affairs of the Heart or LIDAH a.s.a.p. on their hotline: 1800-543 543, they'll send you out some forms which you can send back with all your details and experiences. You'll get a reply on your love status in 6-8 weeks.

Evilution · 08-01-2005 2:35am

In love?? wrote:

We've both agreed that we've both never felt this way with any other parners

This is called pillow-talk, isn't it? Post-coital arsebiscuits.

Dr Bolouswki · 08-01-2005 3:27am

I find it best not to have emotions.

Slutmonkey57b · 08-01-2005 5:18am

Typedef her sister.

Then you'll Know. Ooooh Yeaaaah.

Gordon · 08-01-2005 10:07am

Original Poster, there is nothing wrong with this.

CathyMoran · 08-01-2005 11:54am

Original poster - there is nothing wrong in being in love - she obviously feels the same from what she has said. You can fall in love in an instant (or rather in hindsight realise this) - I fell head over heals in love within a week of dating someone (and 2 weeks of meeting them), with my first love I knew that he was special the moment I met him but I did not fall in love until 14 months later. Enjoy it and tell her if it feels right.

banquo · 08-01-2005 2:57pm

get out now while you can.

Red Alert · 08-01-2005 7:23pm

no rules in the love department i'm afraid. if that's how it feels then that's how it feels and you can't change it... so enjoy it!

Victor · 08-01-2005 8:49pm

At a suitable moment blubber "I wub u" and see what the response is.

elivsvonchiaing · 08-01-2005 8:57pm

I suspect life as you once knew it is truly over - but this could be good...

Chinafoot · 08-01-2005 9:01pm

im with Red Alert here, just go with the flow

and enjoy the feeling.

if you are in love with this girl it doesnt mean that you have to say it. saying it for the first time can be a big deal, especially if you are unsure of the response.
you can always say something like "im mad about you" "i love being with you" "you make me really happy"....stuff like that.

good luck

Mr.Nice Guy · 08-01-2005 9:28pm

A man shouldn't say "I love you" before the woman says it.
He should wait until she says it.

John Wayne or Steve McQueen would've never said it first. :cool:

d22ontour · 08-01-2005 9:41pm

loves like a rollercoaster you just have to ride it

WhiteWashMan · 08-01-2005 9:59pm

perhaps you could ask her if she loves you and if she says no, tell her shes fat.

d22ontour · 08-01-2005 10:02pm

WhiteWashMan wrote:

perhaps you could ask her if she loves you and if she says no, tell her shes fat.

fat chicks need love too more love than non-fat chicks

Mimikyu · 08-01-2005 10:20pm

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d22ontour · 08-01-2005 10:54pm

Solitaryman666 wrote:

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you are probably right i dont know why wwman would tell her shes fat if she didnt love him, maybe he was speaking from past experiences and that was his way of dealing with her rejection

Mimikyu · 08-01-2005 11:32pm

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pickarooney · 08-01-2005 11:50pm

WhiteWashMan wrote:

perhaps you could ask her if she loves you and if she says no, tell her shes fat.

You could start off saying "I love you" but if her face scrunches up in horror, continue on with the "You're fat" line. Because the apostrophe is inaudible, it will sound like "I love your fat", which is a fair compromise, all things considered.

Mimikyu · 08-01-2005 11:54pm

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pickarooney · 09-01-2005 12:01am

She loves you for your gullibility, obviously.

Miles · 09-01-2005 1:24am

How do you know if you're in love? Don't worry you'll know. If you have to ask then you probably aren't.

Z? · 09-01-2005 2:43am

I agree. It just comes on you one day when you realise this person is amazing. Mind you you do fall in love with what you want to see not whats there

d22ontour · 09-01-2005 1:31pm

no i fell in love for the person she is, not how big she thinks her love handles are or will be

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