Odd Girl Situation...

arbeitsscheuer

Ok, so I snogged this girl on New Year's Eve, at a party in a mate's house. So far so normal, right?
Then I find out that; a) She has a bf, and b) He's there. Weird innit? But anyway, it gets stranger... The bf didn't seem to give a sh*t about me scoring his gf, and I found out in the last few days (thru txt conversations wit the girl in question), that they r seeing eachother, but also other ppl. And both know abt the other's infidelity...

Now, this girl has made it blatantly clear that she wants to see more of me, and she is a fantastic person and all, but I'm just not sure if I'm comfortable wit this situation... [yeah, yeah, so I'm a wuss - f*ck off ]

What should I Do?

ChRoMe

You really like her (your single) , She really likes you and is an a honest open relationship.

I dont understand the question

ChRoMe

calis

get ur own girl! what u want to be involved in there for? like shed pick u over him. she likes her freedoms and some1 like u aint gona give it to her. u aint gona share ur gf are u?

simu

If you're okay with her being with other people as well as yourself, go for it.

If not, fuggedaboudid.

GuanYin

simu wrote:

fuggedaboudid.

Your universal translator seems to be on the blink!

calis

nice word tho. im gona use it 2morrow.

Amz

Go get your own girlie.

This one is probably sharing other things besides spit with people. Probably not worth the trip to the STI clinic.

arbeitsscheuer

Amz wrote:

This one is probably sharing other things besides spit with people. Probably not worth the trip to the STI clinic.

Eh... Well, a part of the story I left out (cos i ain't sure if it's true yet ) was that apparently, she shagged her bf in one of the upstairs rooms later on that night. Now, I only heard that from one person, so it's stayin in the "vicious rumour" file til I can be certain, but I'd say you're spot on in your assumptions...

Nah, this bird ain't worth it.

I think.

Ah, I'll think about it some more... Keep the advice comin', it really helps...

Evilution

SebtheBum wrote:

Ok, so I snogged this girl on New Year's Eve, at a party in a mate's house. So far so normal, right?
Then I find out that; a) She has a bf, and b) He's there. Weird innit? But anyway, it gets stranger... The bf didn't seem to give a sh*t about me scoring his gf, and I found out in the last few days (thru txt conversations wit the girl in question), that they r seeing eachother, but also other ppl. And both know abt the other's infidelity...

Now, this girl has made it blatantly clear that she wants to see more of me, and she is a fantastic person and all, but I'm just not sure if I'm comfortable wit this situation... [yeah, yeah, so I'm a wuss - f*ck off ]

What should I Do?

Bit of fun never hurt anyone. Just don't get attached. Oh yeah, always use a condom, this girl sounds like she hasn't so much been around the block as more around the city.

arbeitsscheuer

Yeah, a few of my mates hav said that as well - 'Have a bit of fun, but realise that it ain't anythin more than that"... Sounds grand to me I guess...
I'll c how it pans out, but I'm just gonna play it cool for the time being.

I think. (Indecisive, ain't I?! :rolleyes: )

Miles

Free poon tang is a powerful lure, just sounds like there is a lot of baggage attached to it.

The question is is it worth it? Depends on how hot she is.


:cool:

Evilution

Miles wrote:

The question is is it worth it? Depends on how hot she is.


:cool:

The man is already undecided. Jesus, you're making a real fúcking quandry of it now

mayordenis

look its completely pointless asking us because half the people are gonna say "its no use going nowhere, shes easy" etc. and the others "will say its just fun" or whatever it comes down to whether or not you want a relationship or a friend with benefits.

Miles

If all else fails split hairs.

I'd shag it in a heart beat.

Agent Smith

i personnally wouldnt feel right about this....

better off looking for someone else.........

Evilution

agent smith wrote:

i personnally wouldnt feel right about this....

better off looking for someone else.........

Whats that saying again - never look a gift horse in the mouth, or something like that?

elivsvonchiaing

SebtheBum wrote:

a) She has a bf, and b) He's there. Weird innit? But anyway, it gets stranger... The bf didn't seem to give a sh*t about me scoring his gf, and I found out in the last few days (thru txt conversations wit the girl in question), that they r seeing eachother, but also other ppl. And both know abt the other's infidelity...

Had a converstion about this with a mate of mine... couple we both know ;we have both have had advances from the female half - we've known each other for years and only found about this 5 years ago - my mate also knows the other half shags anything available - she knows most of this - we have come to conclusion- they are a swinger couple! I just wish I didn't have the societal programming to see anything wrong with this :eek: And partake yipee I still think of impact on parents/kids - in their case kids aren't a worry. Will definitely get more reckless as I grow older - within reasone!

cajun_tiger

go for it why not, so she'll never be your gf, and your point is?? you don't have to worry about birthdays xmas valentines or anything like that. thats what hes for....


or maybe he's there just to past the time and she might like you more....


try and see your going in with your eyes open just don't let yourself get hurt