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  • 04-01-2005 3:40pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    feeling really depressed.
    and i think its time for a change....
    does anyone have any advice for someone who isnt happy at work as they dont seem to care about anything but the job that has to be done?
    and everything in the family affairs is gone down hill way too much...
    not being able to spend time wit kids, or have a social life as work hours are really bad...
    although the pay is decent ( 350 a week ) but i dont know if its worth it anymore.

    i think a 9 - 5 job might help. but i dont want to do anything thats boring. i prefer an interesting job. this 1 isnt that interesting.

    i want something that keeps me happy, on edge and i can learn new stuff..

    i dont know what to do anymore.
    ive been crying a lot at night since the issues with my family got bad.
    and all i want to do is end it all. i would never turn to suicide, as i have a lot to live for, but sometimes i dont know if i made the right choices in life.
    there isnt many people that can comfort me, as the people closest to me dont seem to interested in my well being...
    i feel all alone at lot of time.

    can someone help me? because i just need to talk to someone about this.
    ive been thinking of going to see a doctor about depression and maybe a shrink. but i dont know if that would cost much.
    i live in waterford and im more or less desperate for help.


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  • #2
    IANOC
    Closed Accounts Posts: 241 ✭✭IANOC


    well m8 after 8 years of working ive decided its not what you do or what hours you work in the job,it all boils down to how happy you are in the job with colleagues and money.
    dont let it get you down.REMEMBER a job is a job nothing more unless you really like it that much which is even better.
    there is always a job out there that will make you happy.you just have to find it.
    hope this helps
    if you need to talk ill be happy to oblige you
    regards


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    IANOC wrote:
    well m8 after 8 years of working ive decided its not what you do or what hours you work in the job,it all boils down to how happy you are in the job with colleagues and money.
    dont let it get you down.REMEMBER a job is a job nothing more unless you really like it that much which is even better.
    there is always a job out there that will make you happy.you just have to find it.
    hope this helps
    if you need to talk ill be happy to oblige you
    regards



    thats true. i suppose i need to be happy at work. but hwat if im not? the job isnt all bad. only when i realise what else i could be doing, and when something annoy's me about the job like asking for holiday's or not being allowed to smoke when i am stressed.
    that little pisture in your sig is wht i end up doing a lot of time :P...
    well, sometimes im in good form. but a lot of the time, its hopeless.
    is it hard to find another job? i spent 8 months looking for 1, and then i found this job.


  • #4
    IANOC
    Closed Accounts Posts: 241 ✭✭IANOC


    what helps? wrote:
    thats true. i suppose i need to be happy at work. but hwat if im not? the job isnt all bad. only when i realise what else i could be doing, and when something annoy's me about the job like asking for holiday's or not being allowed to smoke when i am stressed.
    that little pisture in your sig is wht i end up doing a lot of time :P...
    well, sometimes im in good form. but a lot of the time, its hopeless.
    is it hard to find another job? i spent 8 months looking for 1, and then i found this job.

    no it isnt that hard you just need to focus on what you would be happy doing
    for e.g would you prefer having a boss and staff that are really nice to you and basically let you run a muck while not particularly liking what you do OR loving the work you do with the boss and the rest not being nice to you etc.
    if you have msn messenger i can prolly help you
    i think you need to have a deep conversation about it as you dont sound too enthustiastic
    regards


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