overly paranoid?

LegacyUser

hey.

i was just wondering is this normal? im in college currently and this are going pretty well but i have a problem socially. I'm out-going, friendly, funny, kind, bit of an all rounder, but under the confident skin, im actually quite parnaoid about some people in my year, i feel that if they dont talk to me on a daily basis, i feel like ive said something wrong or someone has said something to somebody about me which is bad, i know at the moment our course is split up doing different things, but some days i feel like a ghost to alot of the year, im not the attention seeking at all, i lure enough attention just being me, but am i being overly paranoid?

it actually stresses me out and then makes me worried..i keep on tellling myself.. cop-the-fcuk-on!! they dont feel that way about you, but then sometimes i get a really bad dose of it..

anyone else had similiar feelings?

thanks.

Seraphina

at least you speak to people
tbh im convinced everyone in my class hates me. i've never spoken to alot of them and im in second year now.
but i just have no self esteem, so its not quite like your problem.

tinkerbell

It's normal, don't worry about it I reckon most people that are extremely confident on the outside, always have some insecurities that they don't let other people see.

Sleepy

Yup, you're being completely paranoid.

cajun_tiger

schools fully of b!tch cnuts. so grin and bare it. they probably have said something about someone your just picking up on it.
nobody is like 100 %. esp in a college or school situation sorry to be like this but it needs to be said

garthv

naa i do that all the time,tbh its nothing to worry about,you think too much into what someone is saying and then get all uppity about it. Just stand back and remember that they dont hate you,they ARE your mates and everything will be cool