Dating a separated man

sabrina1979

HHi I'm currently dating a man 8 months separated from his ex after she was unfaithful.....there is 2 kids involved both over 17 years old,he told me he needs to hide that he is dsting anyone as the ex is looking for any excuse to make it look like to her family he ended the marriage by claiming he is in a relationship even though he was the one cheated on.....problem now is we can barely meet as she is watching his movements on his days off work and if he is late to see his kids or changes the times she gets suspicious as to why......should I just walk away from this mess of hold on a while till he sorts how to resolve this?he said he wants to be with me but he is scared she will take all in the divorce as she got everything signed over in her name

Peregrinus

Yes, you should walk away. You want a relationship that can be carried on openly and that you don't have to conceal; he is not offering you that.

If/when he's in a position to offer you the kind of relationship you want, then you can both see how you feel about one another and take it from there.

Hannibal_Smith

Is he really broken up? Or is that a line he's giving you?

He's only separated 8 months and it's all very intense. Why would you hang onin a relationship that has so much baggage and isn't working in your interests?

Hannibal_Smith

As this is a duplicate thread and the thread in D&S is getting more replies, I'll close this one off

HS