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  • 12-01-2025 11:58PM
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,350 ✭✭✭


    Please close

    Post edited by Kevhog1988 on


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 530 ✭✭✭Dublinandy3


    Not at all, you should if that's what you want.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 4,189 ✭✭✭StevenToast


    Dont invite them

    "Don't piss down my back and tell me it's raining." - Fletcher



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 108 ✭✭_Quilombero_


    to the whole wedding with jeans or just afters?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 478 ✭✭Ted222


    They’ll look like knobs and it will be on them. Why do you care?



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,657 ✭✭✭chiefwiggum


    Was at a wedding recently for a work colleague. I **** you not,2 lads turned up in jeans,sleeveless shirts, those **** motorbike racing jackets and baseball caps! Absolute yocals!



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  • Moderators, Education Moderators, Sports Moderators, Paid Member Posts: 11,569 Mod ✭✭✭✭artanevilla


    If you're worried about what your guests are wearing, you're probably not enjoying your wedding.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 521 ✭✭✭itsacoolday


    Agree with the other poster, do not invite them. Problem solved. If you worry about what your guests are wearing, do not have them. They would probably prefer to be somewhere else or to be in a less formal setting anyway.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2, Paid Member Posts: 27,896 ✭✭✭✭Peregrinus


    Quite common, and completely acceptable, to specify a dress code on the wedding invitation.

    That way you don't risk embarrassment or hurt feelings by singling out these two to speak to. Plus, you avoid the risk that someone else, who you don't speak to, turns up in jeans, leaving these two very pissed off indeed.



  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,191 ✭✭✭screamer


    They really stick out when everyone else is dressed up. Options- dont invite, invite but demand a certain dress code, invite to the afters only, or invite and let them wear what they like. If you do chose to invite them, remember even if requested, they may turn up in jeans in any event, how would you feel then? how much would that impact your big day? you know the answers now, do whats good for you.



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