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  • 28-01-2024 4:53am
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    irishlad1415
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    iniscealtra
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    You need to have a chat I’d say. You have a child. That’s great, Talk about enjoying life as a family and spending quality time together. Maybe say after this trip that you just can’t go through the fertility cycle again - the stress is too much. That’s ok. If you are doing an egg donation and you leave in the middle of it she will not be happy. Cut back on the expensive holidays and focus on getting enjoying the life you have rather than constantly searching for more. Tell her that you don’t feel you’re enjoying what you have - your child, comfortable life and each other. Appreciation, gratitude, rebuilding your relationship. Family walks at the weekend. Make time to listen to some music and cook together. Bring back some intimacy. Talk about that being important.

    Otherwise from what you said it just seems that she doesn’t appreciate you or your relationship. Fertility issues are difficult but you have a child. Maybe enough is enough. She needs to focus on the what she has not just what she wants.

    Not sure if that helps just going on info given.



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