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Am I overthinking or is this a problem?

29-10-2023 12:08PM

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Bobby_Bolivia

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#2 29-10-2023 12:18PM

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It's been a 3 month relationship, 12 weeks. I wouldn't even consider that to be in the relationship status category tbh. You'll scare her away with your expectations. So either chill and accept what it is, or talk to her with a risk of putting her off.

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#3 29-10-2023 12:21PM

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You're at an uncertain time in the relationship and it's kind of make or break...when you drop the texting facade and whether you get a bit more serious or decide you're not right for each other.
If I were you, I'd pull back a bit. Not in a manipulitive way but just let her do a bit of the leg work.

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