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Looking for a lesbian/bisexual to chat

  • 26-06-2022 9:40pm
    #1
    Redliner123
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5 ✭


    I’m questioning if I’m straight or bi. I’m Happily married to my husband but I can’t help but think sexually about woman. My husband is aware and is ok with it. I need to explore more and see where it takes me. Any one up for the chat or has anyone else been in this situation.



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  • #2
    Annasopra
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,214 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    LGBT Ireland have supports available including

    Helpline

    Online chat

    Peer support groups

    https://lgbt.ie/our-services/

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • #3
    ohbygod
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 187 ✭✭ohbygod


    Hi if you want a chat drop me a pm.



  • #4
    roomwithaview
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 30 ✭roomwithaview


    Ive been in a similar situation. I came out to my husband. Happy to chat to you.



  • #5
    Honeydewbean
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1 ✭Honeydewbean


    I'm in a similar situation to you and would love to chat with you 😊



  • #6
    classy87
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1 ✭classy87


    Very similar situation I know this is an old forum but would love to chat ☺️



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  • #7
    niamhoxx191
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6 ✭niamhoxx191


    Also in very similar situation and would love to chat. Haven't been able to find much options online



  • #8
    Gamergurll
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 319 ✭✭Gamergurll


    I'm in a similar position, just found this thread :) I'm not married but have always stuck to straight relationships and never tried to explore that side of myself, but I'm hitting 40 and starting to worry about it more, must be hitting my midlife crisis! I'm not sure how to deal with how I'm feeling but at least it looks like I'm not alone



  • #9
    Facthunt
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 583 ✭✭✭Facthunt


    Male bisexual here …. Interesting seeing this post. Also in my 40’s !



  • #10
    Alleykins123
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1 ✭Alleykins123


    I'm having a similar experience now, though as a teenager friends did think l was gay.

    Would like to talk to others and explore this further.



  • #11
    columbus_66
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 824 ✭✭✭columbus_66


    Hello, same here, male bi, not sure what to do??



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  • #12
    Annasopra
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 41,214 ✭✭✭✭Annasopra


    I think the LGBT Ireland peer support groups might be an idea for all of the posters here.

    https://www.meetup.com/LGBT-Ireland-Peer-Support/?eventOrigin=your_groups

    But also others

    https://www.meetup.com/lgbtq-wellness-ireland/?eventOrigin=event_home_page

    https://www.meetup.com/meetup-group-GJqrFPPn/?eventOrigin=your_groups

    Lots of other stuff out there if you look

    It was so much easier to blame it on Them. It was bleakly depressing to think that They were Us. If it was Them, then nothing was anyone's fault. If it was us, what did that make Me? After all, I'm one of Us. I must be. I've certainly never thought of myself as one of Them. No one ever thinks of themselves as one of Them. We're always one of Us. It's Them that do the bad things.

    Terry Pratchet



  • #13
    columbus_66
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 824 ✭✭✭columbus_66


    Thanks Annasopra, I would love to join some of those groups.



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