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Cheque or cash in an envelope

  • 13-03-2022 9:00am
    #1
    billyhead
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 10,176 ✭✭✭✭


    Is it best to give cash or a cheque with a card in an envelope. Is it safer or hassle for the couple having to cash it. What's the norm?



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  • #2
    Faith
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 30,661 Mod ✭✭✭✭Faith


    Cash would be the norm, I think. Cheques are uncommon, as not a lot of people would even have cheque books these days I’d say.



  • #3
    MAULBROOK
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,469 ✭✭✭MAULBROOK


    Cash is king



  • #4
    HildaOgdenx
    Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 7,710 Mod ✭✭✭✭HildaOgdenx


    Make sure if giving cash that it's handed to someone reliable who will put it away safely. That's the main thing. I'm not suggesting that anyone would be up to no good, but a card could easily get left down and forgotten about.

    Sometimes someone specific is appointed for the day to take cards and put them away, could be a bridesmaid/ best man/ relative or whoever.

    A cheque or bank draft is a perfectly acceptable way of giving a gift. I think they would get over the inconvenience easily enough 😁!



  • #5
    Gael23
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 12,127 ✭✭✭✭Gael23


    Would give a bank draft if that’s possible



  • #6
    NewbridgeIR
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,125 ✭✭✭NewbridgeIR


    Cheque is best because it's got your name(s) on it.

    Cash and bank drafts don't and can often become separated from the congratulations card.

    If that happens, it puts the couple in a very difficult position when they're sending out the thank you cards.

    I know this from bitter experience.



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  • #7
    [Deleted User]
    Posts: 5,121 ✭✭✭ [Deleted User]


    Cheque - can't get 'misplaced' and you know if it gets cashed.



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