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Halladubha72

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Hi. I'm am very worried about my daughter. Her boyfriend tried to end his life 3 days ago and she said when he came out of hospital he acted as if it hadn't happened and said they'd go to the cinema. He said he went go for counselling. She's in her final few months of her degree. I'm afraid he's going to do our again but she seems to think he'll be OK now. I feel he's too much for her to handle. She's just a giver and I worry for her because she'd do anything to help her friends. Is this normal for him to carry on like this?

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#2 14-01-2022 8:11am

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How old are your daughter and her boyfriend?
Personal Issues might be a better place for your thread than Psychology, you get more people contributing too.

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Moved from Psychology. Personal Issues charter now applies.

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#4 16-01-2022 5:59pm

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I'll close this thread off Halladubha72 and leave your other one going.

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