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carasco_rasco

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zoobizoo

carasco_rasco wrote: »

After a year, I am still not feeling anything at all.

there isn't an attraction and a spark.

I initially got with her for her personality and not her looks,

I am a person that likes to make well informed decisions rather than compulsive or emotion based.

You didn't fancy her at the start.... you still don't.

If some feelings haven't developed after a year, they will never develop.

That's really when you should listen to your emotions because they are informing you well.

You're on here because you're not feeling it. The MIL is irrelevant in this.

You're only early 30s as is she. So you've plenty of time to find new partners. I did in my 40s.

How would she feel if she knew that you have developed no feelings to her and yet continue to give her the impression that everything is OK?
-mortified?
-angry?
-angry towards you?

You need to break up with her because that's what she would want if she knew how you really feel towards her.....

listermint

As much as I would like to believe all of this is a real life situation. I'm struggling here with the new account and the sporadic posting on multiple topical subjects within an hour.


So... There's that.

carasco_rasco

listermint wrote: »

As much as I would like to believe all of this is a real life situation. I'm struggling here with the new account and the sporadic posting on multiple topical subjects within an hour.


So... There's that.

Well you do know that someone has to start somewhere.

Caranica

There's been this thing called Covid for the past year, how can you have had anything close to a proper relationship?

carasco_rasco

Caranica wrote: »

There's been this thing called Covid for the past year, how can you have had anything close to a proper relationship?

Just like everyone else, life still continues and doesn't stop.

Caranica

carasco_rasco wrote: »

Just like everyone else, life still continues and doesn't stop.

I didn't see my partner for the entire duration of lockdown 1 because that's what we were supposed to do. Bubbles only came in late last year so apart from the summer opening of the country there wasn't much relationship time for non cohabiting couples.

MildThing84

Caranica wrote: »

I didn't see my partner for the entire duration of lockdown 1 because that's what we were supposed to do. Bubbles only came in late last year so apart from the summer opening of the country there wasn't much relationship time for non cohabiting couples.

Big difference between what people are supposed to do and what people actually do. Id say you are in the minority, truth be told.

Hannibal_Smith

Mod Note

As the OP has deleted their initial post I'll close the thread there.

Thanks

HS