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DNA query

  • 16-07-2020 12:19am
    #1
    MoniqueAlvarez
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15 ✭


    New to ancestry, hope someone could help. My mother and I have both done the DNA test. A new relative (close enough in cMs second/third cousin) popped up on mine this week on my ‘mother’s side’. I told her to look up her matches and see if he’s also on hers and he’s not. How could this be?

    Also I have two other shared matches with him as well as my mother, they are cousins on my dad’s side, who are definitely not connected to my Mam’s side.

    Is there any logical explanation for this?


Comments

  • #2
    pinkypinky
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 6,709 Mod ✭✭✭✭pinkypinky


    What company did you test with?

    If it's not Ancestry, you should be able to look at the chromosome browser and see where you share DNA with all 3 of the matches (exclude your mother because she will match 50% of your DNA and muddy the water). You might get triangulations with the cousins.

    Is it possible your parents are distantly related?

    Genealogy Forum Mod



  • #3
    MoniqueAlvarez
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15 ✭MoniqueAlvarez


    pinkypinky wrote: »
    What company did you test with?

    If it's not Ancestry, you should be able to look at the chromosome browser and see where you share DNA with all 3 of the matches (exclude your mother because she will match 50% of your DNA and muddy the water). You might get triangulations with the cousins.

    Is it possible your parents are distantly related?

    Yes it is ancestry! We considered the possibility that parents are distantly related but it’s highly unlikely. Or one of this new person’s parents are related to my mother and the other my father. But should my mum not still be a shared match for me and him then?


  • #4
    pinkypinky
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 6,709 Mod ✭✭✭✭pinkypinky


    No.

    You need to message them and chat. And if neither of you is on Gedmatch, you should encourage that. You can use the chromosome browser there.

    Genealogy Forum Mod



  • #5
    Bdoon51
    Closed Accounts Posts: 14 ✭Bdoon51


    Do you live in West Virginia or Kentucky?


  • #6
    MoniqueAlvarez
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15 ✭MoniqueAlvarez


    Bdoon51 wrote: »
    Do you live in West Virginia or Kentucky?

    Significance?


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  • #7
    pinkypinky
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 6,709 Mod ✭✭✭✭pinkypinky


    I think s/he was trying to make a bad joke.

    Genealogy Forum Mod



  • #8
    MoniqueAlvarez
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 15 ✭MoniqueAlvarez


    pinkypinky wrote: »
    I think s/he was trying to make a bad joke.

    Yes, I guessed that but thought he/she could explain to show exactly how sad/bad it is ;-)


  • #9
    pinkypinky
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 6,709 Mod ✭✭✭✭pinkypinky


    I won't be allowing that sort of thing.

    While there's plenty of light-hearted angles to genealogy, this isn't the After Hours forum.

    Genealogy Forum Mod



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