I don't understand

Daisies2014

I recently met someone who I finally had feelings for and it was wonderful. Suddenly he ends it. I let him go, then 2 weeks later he rings me to tell me he got back with the x he told me he hated and that he was thinking bout me and he misses me. I don't no why he's doing this I'm so lost and worst part is that I really thought he was the one I'm such disaster. Did he ring me to tell me to make me suffer more I don't understand I did nothing wrong. I'm not coping with this at all.

Princess Calla

Let him go.

For one there's no gun to his head to get back with an ex, but he did so anyway. Sounds like he was never fully over her.

2. While it's "nice" he rang to let you know he's back with the ex rather than just ghosting you, the fact he says he's missing you shows he's a head wrecker.

3. He's a head wrecker, just keep repeating that and move on.

Drama at the start of the relationship is never a good sign.

Look after yourself

Daisies2014

Yes your right he is head wrecker and I so stupid I should have realised men play games. I just was so neive cause I'm not so knowledgeable about men and there antics.

Princess Calla

Daisies2014 wrote: »

Yes your right he is head wrecker and I so stupid I should have realised men play games. I just was so neive cause I'm not so knowledgeable about men and there antics.

Ah no, some men and some women play games.

It can happen regardless of how experienced or inexperienced you are, sometimes your heart won't allow your eyes to see. Many of us have walked in your shoes, I certainly have.

There's two sayings : you have to kiss alot of frogs before you find your Prince,

And my favourite : he's just not that into you.

So don't let him put you off finding the person who is that into you

Sephiroth_dude

Block his number, you deserve better than this.

Dog day

Hi OP, I’d reposition this & count myself lucky if I were you! He’s shown you his true colours early on & hopefully before you’ve become too overly invested.

Please don’t waste one more second with this emotionally immature, head wrecking person. Him calling you like that is pure attention seeking with no concern as to how you feel so he’s selfish too.

Lucky you to know right now that you shouldn’t waste one more second of time on this guy.

I pity his reinstated ex!

Onwards & upwards & hope you find someone respectful, kind & worthy of your time.

Dog day

Daisies2014 wrote: »

Yes your right he is head wrecker and I so stupid I should have realised men play games. I just was so neive cause I'm not so knowledgeable about men and there antics.

Just to add OP, playing games isn’t limited to the male of the species, unfortunately some people are game players. Sad, but true.

Kidchameleon

Daisies2014 wrote: »

I should have realised men play games. I just was so neive cause I'm not so knowledgeable about men and there antics.

Not a healthy attitude. Might explain some of your bad luck in love.

If someone you have only met is talking about theit ex like that ever again, run a mile.