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Wedding afters gift

  • 30-12-2019 6:46pm
    #1
    fire_man
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,075 ✭✭✭


    I had a wedding last week and could not attend.Should I give a gift to acknowledge wedding?


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  • #2
    Daisy03
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 327 ✭✭Daisy03


    No, i wouldnt. But then again i wouldnt be bothered to go if only invited to the afters of a wedding.


  • #3
    jlm29
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,818 ✭✭✭jlm29


    I might give a gift. Depends on your relationship to the couple.


  • #4
    fire_man
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,075 ✭✭✭fire_man


    I wouldn't be close friends with the couple.Know her fairly well.


  • #5
    SozBbz
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,889 ✭✭✭SozBbz


    Totally up to you.

    As others have intimated, I don't think an afters invite is a huge deal, so I wouldnt feel obliged to send a gift, but at the same time if you personally would like to give a token gift, then that would be a nice thing to do.

    In short, I don't think anything will be expected, but if you want to send them something small, then what harm.


  • #6
    pwurple
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12,449 ✭✭✭✭pwurple


    I usually send a card with apologies and a bottle of wine.


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