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Confused by dreams

  • 24-12-2019 1:18am
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I had a dream last night where a guy I know and I were a couple. Thing is, I have had this dream many times down the years and it always feels so real. I woke this morning and actually felt heartbroken that we weren't together and felt sad all day.

    Thing is I have known him for years and have gone out with others in our social circle. I have actually tried to set him up with some friends of mine and currently he seems to like a friend of mine and she is crazy about him.

    Him and I have a fiery friendship and have argued a lot down the years but always enjoy each others company.

    Am just really confused as to why my dreams of him are almost like Hollywood blockbuster romances and I never have dreams like that about anyone, not even my current boyfriend.

    Am also wondering are my dreams telling me that I should tell him how he makes me feel in that world and see if he is open to explore it in this.

    Am almost afraid to fall asleep in case I wake up missing him tomorrow. I text him today, something I don't often do coz I missed him. Agggh.

    Should I talk to him or leave it?


Comments

  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 259 ✭✭johnml


    Sounds like subconsciously you want to be with him.
    The fact that you're already with somebody else makes that a little tricky!!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,328 ✭✭✭Upforthematch


    Serious grass is greener syndrome going on here.

    No you shouldn't break up your current relationship because of a recurring dream.

    What keeps you with your current bf? If you no longer fancy him, break up with him and be single for a while.

    Fiery friendship is a hint as to what kind of relationship you would have with this other guy.


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