Erectile Dysfunction worries

S.G.M.

Hi all

Was gonna go unreg but feck it nothing to be ashamed off and nothing to hide.

I'm a male in my mid 20's and fear I may suffer from erectile dysfunction in some form.

I am a virgin as I've not had intercourse with a woman. Doesn't bother me at all as I'm waiting for the right woman and i'm not hung up on societal pressures.

However, seeing as though I am not sexually active I worry I may have erectile dysfunction problems when the time eventually comes.
I've been masturbating since I was 18 (late I know) but I've gotten used to my own technique with the 'death grip' most likely being an issue. The problem being, I can currently only ejaculate while lying on my back and watching porn.
I also find it difficult to ejaculate more than once a day.

I've only ever had two sexual interactions with foreplay with a woman (same woman both times). The first time, I didn't ejaculate at all even though she gave me a handjob and a blowjob. I put this down to the fact that I had ejaculated earlier that day by masturbating. The second time, again she tried with the same techniques but I had to masturbate to get myself to ejaculate and eventually did.

I'm worried that when the right woman comes along and I do get to that stage I will ruin what should be a great experience.

Should I visit a professional?

Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks

Rufeo

Stop masturbating.

Get into a healthy excercise routine.

Stop over thinking things.

Church on Tuesday

I wouldn't stop masturbating all of a sudden rather cut back on your porn consumption.

Exercise and eat well.

When the time comes the rest will follow naturally.

S.G.M.

I was gonna say cutting out masturbating probably isn't the best idea. I know the porn probably could be an issue though. Now I've no massive urges to watch porn. I watch it for about 15 minutes during the act and then I have absolutely no urges to watch it again until I feel like masturbating again.

mikemac2

S.G.M. wrote: »

Should I visit a professional?

Give the porn and masturbation a good break and take up a gym routine before the January mad rush

You don't need a professional here, can all be fixed by yourself. It takes time though. It won't be next week, might be a few more

S.G.M.

mikemac2 wrote:

Give the porn and masturbation a good break and take up a gym routine before the January mad rush

A good break as in cut it out? I understand porn but cutting out masturbation completely doesn't seem wise. It'll end up with frustration and wet dreams.

S.G.M.

Terminal Burrowing wrote:

To put it crudely, your iron fisted grip does not replicate the feel of a vagina. The 'frustration' will also drive to go out and meet women. It will also make you sharper, wittier, more confident etc.

It's true that I don't have the drive to get out and meet women ATM so I get your point.