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Erectile Dysfunction worries

  • 27-11-2019 09:32PM
    #1
    S.G.M.
    Closed Accounts Posts: 331 ✭✭


    Hi all

    Was gonna go unreg but feck it nothing to be ashamed off and nothing to hide.

    I'm a male in my mid 20's and fear I may suffer from erectile dysfunction in some form.

    I am a virgin as I've not had intercourse with a woman. Doesn't bother me at all as I'm waiting for the right woman and i'm not hung up on societal pressures.

    However, seeing as though I am not sexually active I worry I may have erectile dysfunction problems when the time eventually comes.
    I've been masturbating since I was 18 (late I know) but I've gotten used to my own technique with the 'death grip' most likely being an issue. The problem being, I can currently only ejaculate while lying on my back and watching porn.
    I also find it difficult to ejaculate more than once a day.

    I've only ever had two sexual interactions with foreplay with a woman (same woman both times). The first time, I didn't ejaculate at all even though she gave me a handjob and a blowjob. I put this down to the fact that I had ejaculated earlier that day by masturbating. The second time, again she tried with the same techniques but I had to masturbate to get myself to ejaculate and eventually did.

    I'm worried that when the right woman comes along and I do get to that stage I will ruin what should be a great experience.

    Should I visit a professional?

    Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks


Comments

  • #2
    Rufeo
    Closed Accounts Posts: 503 ✭✭✭Rufeo


    Stop masturbating.

    Get into a healthy excercise routine.

    Stop over thinking things.


  • #3
    Church on Tuesday
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,858 ✭✭✭Church on Tuesday


    I wouldn't stop masturbating all of a sudden rather cut back on your porn consumption.

    Exercise and eat well.

    When the time comes the rest will follow naturally.


  • #4
    S.G.M.
    Closed Accounts Posts: 331 ✭✭S.G.M.


    I was gonna say cutting out masturbating probably isn't the best idea. I know the porn probably could be an issue though. Now I've no massive urges to watch porn. I watch it for about 15 minutes during the act and then I have absolutely no urges to watch it again until I feel like masturbating again.


  • #5
    mikemac2
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,000 ✭✭✭mikemac2


    S.G.M. wrote: »
    Should I visit a professional?

    Give the porn and masturbation a good break and take up a gym routine before the January mad rush

    You don't need a professional here, can all be fixed by yourself. It takes time though. It won't be next week, might be a few more


  • #6
    S.G.M.
    Closed Accounts Posts: 331 ✭✭S.G.M.


    mikemac2 wrote:
    Give the porn and masturbation a good break and take up a gym routine before the January mad rush
    A good break as in cut it out? I understand porn but cutting out masturbation completely doesn't seem wise. It'll end up with frustration and wet dreams.


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  • #7
    S.G.M.
    Closed Accounts Posts: 331 ✭✭S.G.M.


    Terminal Burrowing wrote:
    To put it crudely, your iron fisted grip does not replicate the feel of a vagina. The 'frustration' will also drive to go out and meet women. It will also make you sharper, wittier, more confident etc.

    It's true that I don't have the drive to get out and meet women ATM so I get your point.


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