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  • 31-08-2019 6:00pm
    #1
    jen70
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 23 ✭


    I've recently seen my partner has subscribed to only fans accounts -following/paying women for adult content, I don't know how to feel about this and haven't said anything to him yet, how would you feel about your partner subscribing to these sites?


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  • #2
    leggo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,061 ✭✭✭leggo


    Porn is just porn. Personally I like relationships where we can be open and honest in that we’re attracted to other people and not compounding each others’ worst fears and insecurities by pretending we don’t feel attraction towards others. It’s not natural and going that way is resisting an inevitable disappointment and problems down the line when it comes out that you are, in fact, human.

    I get why OnlyFans feels worse and more personal than regular porn but, in truth, if he doesn’t actually know the girls then it’s pretty much the same (as far as I’m aware anyway, OnlyFans isn’t for me so I don’t know the ins and outs like if you message and talk to them or anything like that, afaik it’s just videos and pics). He just has favourites. If it’s bothering you, then an open, general conversation on the topic could give you more insight into his thought process and clarify things for you. If he lies about it, then he’s lying to you and that’s another story. But in general it wouldn’t bother me at all if a partner was into porn and had celebs etc they fancied. It only becomes an issue when they wish to act on it.


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