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Help...so lost cheated on for 14years.

  • 25-08-2019 6:36pm
    #1
    yummymummy1990
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3 ✭


    r/relationship_advice
    Help me!!! Please I'm so lost
    u/yummymummy1990
    Hiya so I'm looking for some serious advice on what to do I'm so lost and I don't no how to handle the situation I'm in now so IL explain all and see if any off you have had the same experiences and what the hell do I do!! Ok so I'm with this guy I thought was the love off my life for 14years regardless of his early mistakes in our relationship I forgave him and moved on...but what I find out is he never did my whole relationship has been a lie he even had a second phone stashed at work contacting girls as young as 15 over Facebook they were all inappropriate images of girls and also tried to talk to every girl I know,he even wrote to nebiours of ours were we live in an este sexual messages,he also was on swingers site trying to meet up with random girls for watever also dating sites Snapchat all behind my back and to make things more distriburing he had multiple accounts of these with all diffrent names and got daring eneough to even do one in a close sample of his own name...iv also found out he slept with the two biggest tramps where I live!he was contacting and search up hundreds of girls! how the hell can I move on or trust a person like this or is it just me am I over reacting and all he is is a simple cheat or am I right and there is so much more going on here mentally with him.....I'm apsoloutely heart broken as iv never cheated nor would I dream of even looking at another man he was all I ever wanted I wasn't interested in anything else..I'v always took care of my appearance for him and always tried to make him happy in every aspect of our life...my health is highly affected now and I'm on anxiety medication iv been on these nearly a year now as I was trying to hide the fact I new some of which was going on but nothing could prepare me for what I found out....he's 30 I'm 29 and we have two children one nearly 12 (girl) and boy 7 so you can understand my worry with my daughters age or am over reacting this, I can seem to make any sense of what's going on any more I'm still with him,I even nearly ended my life once when I found out he was on swingers and another couple weeks ago the day I found out he slep with the girls I mentioned I'm unsure of how many he has met I just no there's them two! He also advertised to meet collage girls and pay them to show there boobs, all the people he has added on Facebook and all are nearly all you collage girls some are even in school still under 18 any advice or anyone that has been threw anything like this before would be greatly appreciated to help me get my head around it! Thanks all sorry for long message iv obviously left out bits as there to upsetting bro go into detail but hope all makes sense.
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