Circumcised Top

Gael23

Hope it’s ok to post this here.

I’m circumcised and I met a pretty good guy the other night, we played around and eventually when we got down to business I found it a bit difficult to top him.
I was circumcised as a child for medical reasons and I’ve convinced myself it’s affecting me having sex. I got hard no problem and penetrated his anus just as easy but I didn’t ejaculate after several minutes of action.

So my question is have any tops experienced issues ejaculating or was it more just pressure to perform in the heat of the moment?

IAMAMORON

[Mod Note:] Helpful comments only please.

Heebie

"a few minutes" and you didn't climax yet?
Be thankful for that, the guys you top certainly will be! A one-minute-wonder top isn't much use.

but seriously, yes many circumcised guys experience problems getting enough stimulation due to the combination of millions of amputated nerve endings that went with the prepuce, and the thick, leathery state of the skin of their glans due to it having to do the prepuce's job. Many have difficulty getting or keeping an erection, especially with the additional diminishment of sensation that wearing a condom adds.
Anyone who's really suited to bottoming isn't going to to mind at all if it takes you a long time to climax.. they're going to enjoy it.
It can be frustrating if you're the circumcised top and you really want to get off.

hasdanta

I'm uncircumcised and can never ejaculate from penetration alone, so I doubt its due to you being circumcised. Some guys can ejaculate from penetration alone, and others cant. It's normal!

Gael23

Heebie wrote: »

"a few minutes" and you didn't climax yet?
Be thankful for that, the guys you top certainly will be! A one-minute-wonder top isn't much use.

but seriously, yes many circumcised guys experience problems getting enough stimulation due to the combination of millions of amputated nerve endings that went with the prepuce, and the thick, leathery state of the skin of their glans due to it having to do the prepuce's job. Many have difficulty getting or keeping an erection, especially with the additional diminishment of sensation that wearing a condom adds.
Anyone who's really suited to bottoming isn't going to to mind at all if it takes you a long time to climax.. they're going to enjoy it.
It can be frustrating if you're the circumcised top and you really want to get off.

I never thought of it that way, but your right. It’s going to be more pleasurable for him the longer it takes me. I’m aware of the dangers of anal sex without a condom but I can’t feel anything with one on.

hasdanta wrote: »

I'm uncircumcised and can never ejaculate from penetration alone, so I doubt its due to you being circumcised. Some guys can ejaculate from penetration alone, and others cant. It's normal!

So you don’t ejaculate from sex at all?

On a side note would refraining from self pleasure for a time beforehand help things at all?

Locker10a

Could it be Death Grip?

Ten of Swords

Gael23 wrote: »

I met a pretty good guy the other night

Gael23 wrote: »

I’m aware of the dangers of anal sex without a condom but I can’t feel anything with one on.

Honestly, I'd be a little concerned about this.

Re your issue, is this your first time topping someone?

Gael23

Ten of Swords wrote: »

Re your issue, is this your first time topping someone?

No its not but I don't do it often either.

nthclare

Luckily the moderator said helpful comments please, because I was going to mention that good old a bit of vaseline and sand, the rougher the better lol

But it's not what the op is looking for I'm sure....

hasdanta

Gael23 wrote: »

So you don’t ejaculate from sex at all?

I do, just not from penetrating a guy.

thenumber3

Have you tried it with poppers?

Locker10a

I think there’s a wider issue here that’s not spoken about among men with masturbation and death grip causing loss of sensitivity.
Many millions of men are circumcised, it shouldn’t be that much of a barrier to ejaculation during penetration

Annasopra

nthclare wrote: »

Luckily the moderator said helpful comments please, because I was going to mention that good old a bit of vaseline and sand, the rougher the better lol

But it's not what the op is looking for I'm sure....

Definitely not...

argentum

I was circumcised at the age of 50 and it makes a huge difference.I find it really hard to cum unless its oral to be honest.Its like there's feck all sensation left to get me over the edge

Gael23

When solo I can cum if I use loads of lube but it’s difficult with a guy.

imme

Gael23 wrote: »

When solo I can cum if I use loads of lube but it’s difficult with a guy.

Oh right, thanks for that.

Seriously though, have you thought about your GP.

Locker10a

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Gael23

imme wrote: »

Oh right, thanks for that.

Seriously though, have you thought about your GP.

What could my GP do?

Heebie

Gael23 wrote: »

What could my GP do?

prescribe viagra, cialis, levitra, caverject... so you can get an erection for hours and hopefully stay psychologically excited long enough to have an orgasm? Doesn't everyone to be turgid for 4 hours plus?

Gael23

Heebie wrote: »

prescribe viagra, cialis, levitra, caverject... so you can get an erection for hours and hopefully stay psychologically excited long enough to have an orgasm? Doesn't everyone to be turgid for 4 hours plus?

I can get an erection, I just can’t ejaculate. Would those medicines help?

Heebie

Gael23 wrote: »

I can get an erection, I just can’t ejaculate. Would those medicines help?

I would doubt it. I was hoping for more comedic effect with my last post on this thread.

Locker10a

Gael23 wrote: »

I can get an erection, I just can’t ejaculate. Would those medicines help?

Can you ejaculate from masturbation ? If so have you read up about death grip and and loosing sensitivity from masturbating? And the measures you can take to reverse this ?

bikeman1

Hi Gael,

I tried sending a PM with some advice, but your inbox is full!

boetstark

Mod Note - if you have a problem with any post use the report function, do not comment on mod actions in thread either, take it to PM if you wish

geronimo123

I got snipped after I was born - routine circumcision was practised by the paediatrician at the hospital in Co. Galway where I was born in 1974 - you need lube and lots of it when you're performing with someone else.

Gael23

geronimo123 wrote: »

I got snipped after I was born - routine circumcision was practised by the paediatrician at the hospital in Co. Galway where I was born in 1974 - you need lube and lots of it when you're performing with someone else.

What if your wearing a condom? Do you put lube on that or directly on your penis

L1011

Both

Heebie

Gael23 wrote:

I can get an erection, I just can’t ejaculate. Would those medicines help?

They'd only help you stay hard longer. You'd still have to find ways to either physically or psychologically, get enough stimulation to get you over there edge.